How do i get people to leave me alone?

There is this one lady i have known since 1999.The whole time i have known her it's been drama etc.I know her from attending baseball games.During the off season i never hang out with her.We use to talk on the phone.More like she'd talk and never let me say a word.She has started drama on the phone or at the baseball games.Awhile back i blocked her number from calling my home number.I also blocked her on My Space.Forgot to block her on Facebook.Well she sent me a rude message on there.Off and on i have ignored her in the past.Plus told her i did not want to be her friend.I at times would ignore her phone calls for weeks or months at a time.But she still do's not get it.Plus she puts words in my mouth etc.Nobody i know at the baseball games like her.Because she is rude,has used people,asks strangers for money,starts arguments over nothing.She told me a few times i was rude.When i told her i don't want to be her friend.Plus she told me i don't have a right to drop her as a friend etc.

I am so sorry I am unclear about your question. Are you asking how to get the single woman to leave you alone? Or is it people you want to leave you alone???

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Holmes

How Do i have her leave me alone?By the way i'm female.

Perhaps you might call the police to find out if her conduct may be considered stalking?

Well...I would just tell her that you do not want to continue the relationship and that you would like her to stop calling you, block her from FB and let her know that you will not be responding to any calls, letters/notes, cards, etc...

But....in your post you said that you would "off and on" ignore her and that you would "at times" ignore her calls. I think this could be part of the issue. If you are ignoring her "at times" and then giving her attention at other times, she could be getting mixed signals from you which tells her to keep coming back for more.

If you're going to break the relationship, you need to set your boundaries and be consistent. If she still continues to bother you, just ignore her and don't respond. If she begins to push things to far, go to the Police and file a harassment complaint.

There are things you can do as well. In most states, if you tell her not to contact you by phone, and she calls you a certain number of times (usually 3-6 times) you can file a harassment charge based on that. You could also block her number from your phone, don't listen to her voicemails, don't read emails-just delete....stuff like this.

Ultimately though, if you don't stick to the boundaries...niether will she.

Good luck.

i am doing my masters and i m an international student. 8 months before i met a guy thru social networking sites. upon his repeated requests even after i rejacted i finally accepted him. we started talking on fones and chat eveyday. i didnot have any feeling on him becos i was so commited to my studies, future, career and parents. i neva give any guy that chance to tak to me so close in my life. but i was so attracted to his words, the way he speaks and he created such impression in me that he would be my perfect husband that i was looking for. he shared everything with him even about his ex girl and all his family issues and he created such an impression that he loves me a lot. but i can even tell now that he likes me. with fear of losing him i proposed him then he said he had no such feeling on me. after some drama we were normal and we used to talk like lovers. but we had some quarrels in between abt this issue when ever he said that he is not going to marry me. last month he told me that his mother did not like me when he showed my pic and he had already hurted her enough in his last affair. and he didnot want to repeat that. and he aslo said he was not feeling to love me but he likes me alot after his mother. as i was so mad about him i accepted to have sex with him so that i ll be having some of his memories, but last night he told me that he is liking a gal more than me and even his mother liked her and he wanted to leave me and break up with me completely, i am so shatterd and now i cant even think of marying another guy and i dont want to sppoil his life. i still want him. some one please help me how to read his mind and get him back. i m good looking, humble and has everything which a gal has to be. i am not able to take this, please help me.