parents :(

i didn't come up with this, but it is almost exactally what im feeling.
It hurts when no one listens
It hurts when no one understands
It hurts when no one cares
It hurts when no one believes you
It hurts when no one believes in you
It hurts when no one trusts you
It hurts when no one helps you
It hurts more when its your parents.

my parents hurt me constantly and its really driving me crazy

What is the plan, desperate&disturbed? How are you going to kick these negative thoughts in the keister?

i have no idea right now

When do you plan on having a plan, d&d?

i guess my plan is to survive the next 3 years and then never deal with them again

Just think, each day, each moment that passes you are that much closer to getting out.

((((((((d&d))))))))

do you want to talk more about it? maybe we can help.

((((d&d)))) hey friend! I'm sorry that you are dealing with this. If you want to talk, feel free to PM me.

I was going to post a thread about my parents also @_@; you took the words right out of my mouth.
My parents drive me crazy, and as sensitive as I am, it always drives me to tears in the end. I hate every argument we've made between each other. I hate it when they claim to be ALWAYS RIGHT, JUST because THEY'RE mom & dad.
I try so very hard, to watch what I say. I try very hard to hold my tongue. But it grew to the point where it has become very difficult for me.
I know it's wrong to fight with my parents, but....they don't care about how I feel, or what hurts me. I wonder what love really means to them. @__@;
I still love them. I just want them to understand.
But they will just never listen. Because to them, I'm forever, going to be wrong.

How are you doing, desperate&disturbed?

im doing bad. very very bad

Sorry mate.

You need a great big warm embracing hug.

Parents are adults united. Big experienced older people against young, little and immature kids. (That's what adults call anyone who does not look or seem as MATURE AND AS BIGLY EXPERIENCED think they are). I laugh and scoff at them that is parents, or so called adults in an adult world.

Parents and adults forget what it is like to be a young person, trying to grow, make scary decisions, take responsibility, and sometimes it is so darn hard.

I could remember watching an adult who suffered stroke, trying to tie their shoe laces again. Yes it was like watching a 4 or 5 year old trying to tie their shoe laces. They got so darned frustrated, until the nurse came over and reassured them, that they can try another day.

All children need REASSURANCE. Just like this adult stoke victim, LIFE CAN BE FRUSTRATING by itself.

Mum and Dad... I just need a warm and friendly hug. Growing up is daunting, scary, frustrating and.....REASSURANCE from you guys would be good sometimes.

Adults, parents have lost sight of PERSPECTIVE. They stand on the other side of the glass window of growing up. You are on this side of the glass window and they have forgotten to walk around the door and see it from your perspective.

Learn about their perspective. Read 5 love languages By Gary Chapman. It helps you see and understand about yourself and where they (sought of...) have lost their way and forgotten.

Chin up mate.

Sparkling Diamonds come from very very very hard deep digging and final chiseling and polishing work: after plenty of intense cooking time in the dark warmth,and slowly crystalizing and growing.

what happened, d&d ?

[im here for you! ]

Sorry about what is going on with you too, MomoBear.

why the **** don't they care about me!
today in the car i cried for an hour, had a panic attack and eventually passed out. NO RESPONSE!
a few weeks ago my mom found a pile of bloody towels from when i cut myself, and she didn't even care. this is pissing me off so much

Sorry Des, I will always be here for you, and your an amazing person your parents are, well, morons. They should care about you and if they don't that is there fault darling.

Sadly, dear, I know all too well where you're coming from. My mom has always been exactly the same way. she never listened, or aknowledged that she even heard... years went by and she never cared.

I moved out last summer when I turned 18. It was rough for a while, and it still is sometimes, but I made it. Advice from the other side is to always keep your chin up. no matter what your parents do or don't do, YOU are a spectacular person! Don't ever let them get you down. It will destroy you if you let it. I don't know what your situation is, but when I was in your position the only thing that got me through was that somewhere, someday, someone would love me the way they never knew how. And it happened. I have a whole new family that loves me the way I deserve to be loved!

I'm sending you my love! and if you ever need to talk, I'm here!

thanks
my so called "bro" aka the guy i looked up to since i was like 9 just turned on me and told me that i don't matter to him. and then some really horrible things about suicide. this just keeps getting worse

How is it going, d&d?

its still going

((Desperate&disturbed)) - I want to understand your situation. Are you dealing with parents who are neglectful and have never cared or is this the normal communication/rebellion that happens to most teens? Are your parents having problems themselves? - I ask because if parents are suffering themselves, sometimes they're blinded from their own children. What are they dis-satisfied with in regards to you?

I understand it's difficult being a teenager but it's also hard being a parent. The ideal situation is if you can both empathize with each other. Are you being helpful to your parents? - perhaps doing something nice with out them asking. I'm not trying to blame you, just trying to mellow things out. Does your mom just not care or is she bombarded with her own problems? I hope things improve soon for you.