My Boyfriend is being really nice lately and all I can think about is he messed up...

Isn't that awful???
I feel bad for putting these thoughts in my head but that's just how I feel...
Like he messed up and hes trying to gain points back!

I dunno anyone else ever feel like this? I'm sure I'm not alone although I don't wish I wasn't... it's an awful feeling to have..

Did he mess up?

I maybe shouldnt be replying to you about this but found help recently dealing with guilt on these forums....I DID mess up 6 months ago and am still trying to forgive myself, my partner has no idea and i believe i am paying for it in my own way....

From a personal point of view i very much doubt he messed up, my reactions were far from being nice, sleepless nights, deep moods, anxiety were how i reacted to the guilt of doing something so wrong...

Dunno if this helps or not

It all could very well mean that he finally realizes how much he truly does care about you.

Don't you expect nice treatment from those who love you? I would look at why I feel I don't deserve nice treatment all the time that I would notice this and think negatively about the other.

No I don't have proof and I talked to him and asked if he has and he reasured me of never doing anything not and ever going to. I want to believe and at times I do but I can't I duno D;

Every perception on this matter helps... thank you..

I have terrible trust issues and alot of "friends" turned out to not be friends. I duno I feel constantly on guard and find it suspicious when people are very nice to me @n@

Perhaps a therapist can help you sort out thoughts like these?

Yea im def going to get one. I need the money and time and support of my fam first cause im jobless ;c

Good luck in getting the help you need, The Bakery.