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Old Apr 22, 2010, 06:05 AM
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Isn't that awful???
I feel bad for putting these thoughts in my head but that's just how I feel...
Like he messed up and hes trying to gain points back!

I dunno anyone else ever feel like this? I'm sure I'm not alone although I don't wish I wasn't... it's an awful feeling to have..
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Old Apr 22, 2010, 07:07 AM
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Did he mess up?
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Old Apr 22, 2010, 08:21 AM
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I maybe shouldnt be replying to you about this but found help recently dealing with guilt on these forums....I DID mess up 6 months ago and am still trying to forgive myself, my partner has no idea and i believe i am paying for it in my own way....

From a personal point of view i very much doubt he messed up, my reactions were far from being nice, sleepless nights, deep moods, anxiety were how i reacted to the guilt of doing something so wrong...

Dunno if this helps or not
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Old Apr 23, 2010, 07:18 AM
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It all could very well mean that he finally realizes how much he truly does care about you.
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Thanks for this!
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Old Apr 24, 2010, 08:16 AM
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Don't you expect nice treatment from those who love you? I would look at why I feel I don't deserve nice treatment all the time that I would notice this and think negatively about the other.
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Old Apr 25, 2010, 05:20 AM
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Did he mess up?
No I don't have proof and I talked to him and asked if he has and he reasured me of never doing anything not and ever going to. I want to believe and at times I do but I can't I duno D;
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Old Apr 25, 2010, 05:21 AM
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I maybe shouldnt be replying to you about this but found help recently dealing with guilt on these forums....I DID mess up 6 months ago and am still trying to forgive myself, my partner has no idea and i believe i am paying for it in my own way....

From a personal point of view i very much doubt he messed up, my reactions were far from being nice, sleepless nights, deep moods, anxiety were how i reacted to the guilt of doing something so wrong...

Dunno if this helps or not
Every perception on this matter helps... thank you..
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Old Apr 25, 2010, 05:23 AM
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Don't you expect nice treatment from those who love you? I would look at why I feel I don't deserve nice treatment all the time that I would notice this and think negatively about the other.
I have terrible trust issues and alot of "friends" turned out to not be friends. I duno I feel constantly on guard and find it suspicious when people are very nice to me @n@
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Old Apr 25, 2010, 06:23 AM
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Perhaps a therapist can help you sort out thoughts like these?
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Old Apr 25, 2010, 08:22 AM
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Yea im def going to get one. I need the money and time and support of my fam first cause im jobless ;c
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Old Apr 27, 2010, 09:13 AM
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Good luck in getting the help you need, The Bakery.
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