[marjan]

He's absolutely nuts....I can't stand his emails anymore....I can't believe he's still thinking about us after 5 years....OMG....I don't know how to tell him that I would never ever want him....I ignore all his emails and still he does that....

Today, I got an email from him that he found a very old email from me that he never read it before, because he was not even using that email account....OMG....he was my husband and he didn't give me his real email account....now he feels bad....he wants to fix stuff, but I felt sick to my stomach to know this....I didn't know that I didn't have his real email address....the one that others are using too....god....all he does make me think I'm so lucky to be so away from him....I don't know if I should email him telling him to stop all these dramas....and I don't want him at all....or should I just block him....it's just I block him from one email address, he opens another one and email me....arggg.....

I wish I was married and tell him to get off....I hate him so much....He was such an abuser.....oh....thank god to be divorced from him....thank god....

he answered me an email that I have sent him in 2005....hehehe....he just wrote that very intense email that I was begging him lets fix our marriage....that's just a joke really....I don't know why he doesn't get married or get a girlfriend....what's wrong with him?

I'm so angry at him....Honesty, I think I will be so fine without a husband....I don't need an A.H. in my life....If I find a nice guy, very good, if not, then I will continue my beautiful life.....

M.

(((marjan)))--there must be a way to have him blocked. Report him to all sites--have his e-mails put into a file automatically--I do this. Then I delete them.

This is unecessary hardship.

Also, I decided long ago that I was wasting energy "hating" anyone...no one is worth
you eating your heart out and feeling hateful...He's really rather pathetic; dontcha
think? I feel sorry for my Ex--he's a miserable man today (20 years later)--Your Ex sounds pretty miserable too--what goes around, comes around-----!!!

Maybe write him an e-mail about how sorry you are that he's so unhappy, but you are trying to live your own life now; and his misery belongs to him--not you.

That you are very happy now, and you feel sorry for him?----he may just stop--theo

Sounds like someone I know. Abusive, Nuts, Obsessed, Still single..only it's been 25 years.

I would just set up email to auto-delete emails from him or put in a hidden folder in case some day you're bored and want to read them. If he signs his name at the end of his emails, put that on your filter list. Some emails have it where you can set up to only accept email from your "contact" list. I think Outlook does that. Or make a new email if possible.

I was married for 15 years I left him and got divorced nine years ago, he would have me back in a flash despite the fact I am re married with another child !

Some men just don't move on in my case he liked what we had and cant see the wood for the trees where other women are.

I totally ignore my ex unless its to do with the children then I will talk matter of fact with him.

If you have no children with him then I would send him an email telling him no way are you two ever going to get back to move on with his life and meet someone new. So goodbye.

Please do not contact me again.

[Shangrala]

I agree with Tishie.

I'd send him an email, informing him you're not interested and to simply leave you alone and any further attempts of contacting you will be a waste of his time, as this is the last time you'll ever attend to responding to him.
THEN, if it continues, block/delete him.

What a blowhorn. Some just can't get over themselves, can they?

Lotsa 's...

Shangrala

[lynn P.]

I agree -tell him not to email you anymore and block him after that. If there's an emergency would you want contact for that purpose only?

[marjan]

Thanks everybody.....I haven't email him back yet....and not sure if I want to do that at all....He's absolutely nuts....he's replying to my email after 5 years....OMG!!!!
Last night, I slept very bad.....and today I have lots of anxiety.....yes, I'm very sensitive person and I don't like to hurt anybody.....that's why I don't want to reply him back....because I know I would say something to hurt him....I would like to tell him "You are crazy....total waste of time and energy....I don't even want you at all....stop being so obsess about me....leave me alone and don't email me anymore...."
I have no idea what to do....probably, it's good to email him and tell him to stop emailing me....
I don't want to change my email address....my email address is my permanent address and I have it for more than 12 years....
I was doing a favor to him to keep him to not block him, because if he had some legal issues....I don't have any kids with him....how lucky I am....and I feel petty for him for being so pathetic.....
thanks everybody for your help....
I have to admit that your support has made me a better person.....It has changed my life very much....I don't share this stuff with my friends and family anymore....I didn't tell this to my mum....that is a big step....I have you guys to share my thoughts....thanks again

[thunderbear]

Marjan girl I know how you feel. My ex-husband (we've been divorced 10 years) calls my Gandmother all the time and instead of asking about our son, he will talk about me and how he misses me and loves me and hates that I am remarried. He told one of my friends that he would do anything for us to be together. ICK I have'nt even SEEN him in 8 years. Or talked to him. He makes me sick to my stomach. He did'nt abuse me or anything he just could'nt keep "IT" in his pants. He cheated on me with both my sisters, his best "friend" , my cousin's next door neighbor, his best friend's sister-in-law. Gross. And he wonders why I left himIdiot

[marjan]

Originally Posted by thunderbear

Marjan girl I know how you feel. My ex-husband (we've been divorced 10 years) calls my Gandmother all the time and instead of asking about our son, he will talk about me and how he misses me and loves me and hates that I am remarried. He told one of my friends that he would do anything for us to be together. ICK I have'nt even SEEN him in 8 years. Or talked to him. He makes me sick to my stomach. He did'nt abuse me or anything he just could'nt keep "IT" in his pants. He cheated on me with both my sisters, his best "friend" , my cousin's next door neighbor, his best friend's sister-in-law. Gross. And he wonders why I left himIdiot

thanks for sharing with us....OMG...I didn't know there are guys crazier than my ex out there....at least my ex was not a cheater, but a total loser....he was not even kiss me....we had sex once a month or even months were going without it....and of course, no affection at all.....and at top of that, I had to pay for everything...home, car, insurance, bills.....then he thinks why I left.....

I'm so happy to be out of that relationship....and I don't want to even email him telling not to email me....I've done with him....besides, I don't have any kids from him....so why should I bother myself....