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Old Jul 26, 2010, 07:14 PM
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I found an old letter from a friend I have not seen or talked to in 7 years. The letter brought back so many memories and emotions I wasn't expecting. I looked for him online and found him. I think he was surprised to hear from me. And I think he was glad too. I've messaged him a cpl times and I've just been letting my feelings out and I haven't even seen him. We've just txt today. I didn't mean to let all of it just come out. I feel kinda silly to remember someone as they were and to want to reconnect years later without knowing who they are now. *sigh* And I'm not good at opening up. I felt like it was ok. But now I am feeling so vulnerable. And I think I'm just going to cry.

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Old Jul 26, 2010, 09:28 PM
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Try not to worry about it, since you can't change what or how much you said. It depends on the guy -some are over whelmed with too much emotion. Don't beat yourself up over it - you're going to be okay.
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Old Jul 27, 2010, 01:17 AM
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Dear ((((bridgie))))

...you will be fine... feelings are there to be felt...no matter what happens...you will be fine...

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Old Jul 27, 2010, 10:11 AM
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained, bridgie. Who knows?
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Old Jul 28, 2010, 07:03 PM
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Thank you all for your replies. I am still feeling vulnerable. We have continued to talk and he has let me know how he used to feel. We live about an 1 hour apart. We both have busy schedules and would like to get together. May not happen for another month. Our schedules don't allow much currently. In a way I wld like to see him now but I'm thinking after chatting a month may be in our best interest. I don't know. My heart is still aching and I am not sure anymore how much to let out. Really we are just 2 old friends getting reaquainted. Nothing more nothing less. I don't see why I'm so nervous.
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Old Jul 30, 2010, 12:22 AM
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((((bridgie))))

You are feeling this way because of old memories and old romance. If you have been alone for a long time it may be that your heart recognises someone who made you feel good at one point. Let it roll and ust see what happens...

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