Feeling low... :'(

There is a party going on rite now but i have returnd rite frm the entrance.i became so nervous that my recent wil be there too...and that he might make fun of me,and i saw his 'probable gf' too and suddenly i felt im no match to him. And so i came back before he could even see me. After that,i have wept for like an hour or so and now im sharing this wid u. This is so bad,whoever i like doesnt like me back and it makes me feel like a loser. :-(

*my recent crush will be there too

Are you a loser, jiakhan? I don't think so. I think you'll grow out of this problem. I think you'll have many other boyfriends. I think you'll find the love of your life and marry him and have children with him who you'll watch grow up tall and strong and get married and give you grandchildren. It's so hard to be young. Everything is so new and different, one has no perspective and little understanding. It gets easier as you grow up, you know. You didn't ask to be born but you were, and here you are facing the problems of life. You're not at the end of the road, jiakhan. By no means. You're at the very beginning. And that's a wonderful thing. And a hard thing. You're between two stages of comfort and have to struggle along the narrow, dangerous place in between. But you can do it. We all can do it. And we do. You are not a loser, jiakhan. You are a young person just starting out. And that is painful and hopeful at the same time. Do not worry. You will have all that is your due. Boyfriends, husbands, children, joy, sorrow, fulfillment, pain. The journey is long, young lady. But you will travel all the way until the end. And you will be glad you did. Take care.

jaikhan

How can you be a loser when there is so much in life to gain? Do not measure yourself by the yardstick of another, their yardstick may not even measure the yard and they may have a pretend idea that makes them look or seem better than they truly are

Always step forward and do it at your own comfort, those who would rubbish you are the ones with the title of loser

Morgana Rhiannon Connolly

Thanx for the kind words. I n this guy were at the same place awhile ago and he didnt notice me or looked at me at all. I m feeling unworthy. he knws pretty wel that i like him a lot ,but he either tries to make fun of me or else ignores me completely. A fridnd of mine sugge7ted to me that he might notice me better if i give up staring at him and quit talking loudly and laughing when he is around. I have tried this too but he still doesnt look at me. What do i do? : (

No suggestions?

(((jiakhan))) You are not a loser at all!! I'm 30 and still can't talk to people I really like worth beans. I get shy and self-conscious, but I know anyone who likes me back is going to see past my shyness and try to make me feel comfortable.

He doesn't seem like he is worth your attention. Any guy who is willing to make fun of you is not worth a millisecond of your time. Maybe ask yourself what is it about him that interests you so much?

You'll find someone amazing, just don't look so hard. My advice, work on you, enjoy life, spend time with your friends and just have fun. The right guy will pop up when you least expect it.