:(

Im so sad

(((((isadora))))))

What's wrong?

My boyfriend br0ke up with me

Sweetie.. same thing happened to me two weeks ago. I DO understand what you are feeling.
It hurts, hurts so babdly...
I can say that after 2 weeks I am better than I was. Time does heal.
I can't really say anything that will make it better for the moment.. everything just seems trite and false.
I do really hope that you get through this okay.

Thanks belle yes it hurts alot. It feels like somebody just reached inside of my heart and took it out and its die :'(

Sorry about your boyfriend. Just be sad for a little while and then do something nice for yourself.

Thanks beggin for help. I have to try to forget everything even though its going to be hard knowing that he is not going to be with me and i love him with all my heart

((((isadora))))
One baby step at a time. Yes you still love him I understand. But I promise that it will get easier one day - don't know when - I just know that you can and will fall inlove over and over in your life and that the heart break does happen over and over.

Loving someone else isn't what you want right now and it wont be for a long time.
You heart is broken and you have to let it heal xxxx

thanks belle well today we were texting and he said he was goin to give me last chance but than he told me he wants to leave me all i know is im soo weak i dont l dont feel like doing nothing its soo hard. last night he told me some mean stuffs
i dont know whats going to happen but i have to be perpare for whatever it comes..

Sweetheart I know it tough..
What was his reasons for ending it in the first place? You have had trouble with him in the past.. him thinkin that you were looking at other guys etc from what i remember.
If in once sentence/text he can go from saying that he was going to give you a second chance to saying mean things... well I know you love him but deep down inside you must know that you deserve better?

Well the first reason because he thought i flrit with a guy and i didnt. Well last night he told me that i was a beautfuil girl from the outside but then he said that from the inside im f***ed up and that remember that i will always be h*e !. And im not like that. He thinks im always lying but im always telling him the treat. I cant take this anymore and right now i have to hide the tears and not to cry infront of my family. Is just so hard. He's giving me a chance and i have to do something to show him i wanna be with him and love him.

Oh Sweetheart I do really think that you deserve better than this guy.
From everything you have posted you do nothing but show love and devotion to him.
You are not "f***ed up" in the inside.

Just for me can you look at this from the outside... say if it was me that was in your situation.. what advice would you be giving me?

I would be telling you to leave him move on you desreve the best. But for me its so hard cause my love for him was so big and whatever i do or listen to song everything reminds me of him and i just want to cry (

Letting go is harder than staying.

I know about the songs... The weekend I spent away with Louis (one of a couple really) we listened to two cd's over and over again.. and now I can't listen to them anymore... one day I will.

I just want you to be happy isadora. If being with this man makes you happy (trully trully happy) then go for it but remember that he has done this once and may just do it again and again. Be strong for yourself and don't let him walk all over you.

You do deserve a happy life full of love - not anxiety, sadness and hurt xxxx

Thanks belle yes i truely love him alot its going to be so hard we'll see how this goes cause the way i see it he's going to leave me. At first i thought i would be strong but i realize im not. And i remember every little thing we did together everything and it hurts

You shouldn't be living in fear that he will leave...

Be strong xxxx and remember I am always here for you!

Thank you so much belle thats so sweet. im happy that your here for me. My mom wouldnt be there for me she would be yelling at me intsead of listeing to me

My mum would be similar.. I love her dearly but she has the motto "move on and forget".. mainly because she is hurting when I am hurting. She hates that there is nothing that she can do to help ease the pain. Sometimes just a hug and a cuddle are all you need.. not harsh words or being told that there is "plenty of fish in the sea" type quotes.

Keep talking... What i found after Mark was that the more I talked the more I got it out of my head and away from my heart...

I'll always listen

Yes my mom is like that she can be mean and she is strong and doesnt forgive. I used to be like that i was strong and now when i met my boyfriend everything change im not strong im more loveably thanks for being here whenever im down ill tell you.

Dear One

What sadness you must feel. It is harsh when you go back to walking alone but it is also a good time for reflection and working out what happened to bring this about

When he said to give you another chance what did he mean? did you perchance hurt him or was he just being unsure as many people are when they call courtship to end?

We wish you some comfort and hope you soon begin to heal

Morgana

Thanks Morgana well the chance he give me was to work on our relationship. We talked yesterday but i hope things get better between me and him.