[stargazer182]

Right now at this point of my life I feel that nothing worths keep on breathing. Once I had everything but right now I feel miserable. What can you do when somebody has made you lose direction of your own life? When that person has treated like if you were less than a human being? I feel so sad

[Belle1979]

((((stargazer))))
If you are recognising that you have lost your direction then you are taking a step to getting it back.

Are you out of the situation of being treated less than human?

Counselling is always an option to finding yourself again.

[Perna]

Hi, Stargazer, welcome to PsychCentral (PC).

Accepting one's sadness for a lost or bad relationship and putting some boundaries on it instead of allowing it to be "everything" is the first step. We are more than any one relationship and can choose to deliberately turn from a bad one and start looking toward the future and searching for what/who else we might become interested in while admitting that the relationship was important, learn from and grieve it rather than let it continue to beat on you. It's not part of "You", it's external.

[Elana05]

Originally Posted by stargazer182

Right now at this point of my life I feel that nothing worths keep on breathing. Once I had everything but right now I feel miserable. What can you do when somebody has made you lose direction of your own life? When that person has treated like if you were less than a human being? I feel so sad

Dear stargazer182,

As Perna said, you have made this realization and that is a big step.

Do you feel you are in danger right now?
If so... here is a number you can call... (800-799-7233)
I believe you will find your way again. The key is to keep moving forward and remember all of the things that have been important to you, your dreams and those things that you love. They will always be there for you to pick them up again. Many people in this world have set backs. These are the things that make us wise and strong.
Be gentle with yourself, believe in you.
We believe in you here at pc...


Hugs,

Elana

[Gus1234U]

dear Stargazer, you are wise to allow yourself to grieve for your lost dreams,, when you have finished,, and that may not be right away, the world will brighten up again and life will pick up anew. until then,,, please take good care of you,, let those who love you help you,, be with you, and comfort you,,, as we here at PC would, if we only could,,, Gus

[buggedbybugs]

i know its easier said than done, but you CANNOT let somebody get you so far down you want to 'check out', you cant let them have that much power over you. know that this will pass, it always does.

[madisgram]

welcome to pc, star! well the first thought i have is why would you want to give that much power to someone else? your life is yours and you can control your destiny. it is not right that someone made you feel less than a human being. do you have to include that person in your life at all??? if not, i'd give them the boot.we're here for you and care. i'm sorry you feel so sad right now.

[ChipmunkGal]

<<<HUGS>>> How are you feeling today? Please let us know. If you have the opportunity, keep us updated. I'm not in the best position to give solid advice right now but do know that I (and all of us) care. <3 Vent away and speak your mind. Just know you ARE a human being...no matter what someone says or does to you. They can't take that away. You deserve affection. Nobody can take that away either.

[beggin for help]

Originally Posted by stargazer182

Right now at this point of my life I feel that nothing worths keep on breathing. Once I had everything but right now I feel miserable. What can you do when somebody has made you lose direction of your own life? When that person has treated like if you were less than a human being? I feel so sad

Please don't cry. You will feel better sooner or later I promise. I know you are feeling like a loser, but we all do. You have come to the right place for letting others know how you feel. Some people can sympathize, but we empathize. There is a huge difference. Just cry it out (opposite of what I said earlier I know) and try to keep going. Don't do anything to hurt yourself because you will have better times soon.

[beggin for help]

I feel so bad for you stargazer182. I know how you feel.

[stargazer182]

I wish I could get to see some light, every step I take is completely full of darkness, I wish I knew when did I lose control over my life.