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#1
Nov 13, 2010, 02:11 PM
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i sent him friend request on fb last nite from my original fb account . He didnt respond at all so i removed it in th morning. But then i sent it again twice,n finally he msgd me on fb saying that plz dont send me frndshp request time and again. He wrote ths in capital letters. I replied 'k'. But then i told him that im sorry n tht i just didnt have courage to say it earlier. He askd me y i am sry. I then told him i m the anonymous person who contctd him several months ago. I said nothing abt the fake ids n all,n he dint ask anythng either. He just said he doesnt hav time to think abt these things so its ok. He said bye. I thankd him n wishd him luck 4 the upcoming final exams n his career. He didnt reply thereafter. Then i hav blockd him
Im worried tht he will show these fb msgs to his frnds  n they'l hav a laugh out of it. Im satisfied in a way tht i finally approachd him wid my real id. I wasnt expecting much 4m him..i knew he is nt goin to befriend me evn if i tel him tht here i am. But sumhow i felt its necessary. I felt like i wont really move on widout doin so. It doesnt make any sense i have nw given him a real proof to show off it was me coz nw he has msgs 4m me in his fb inbox. :@ but the worst thng is m in sort of denial state..i dnt want 2 thnk that now all the boys n many of the gals of my class wil come 2 knw 4 sure that i m the person who cntctd him like tht. Its so frustrating. Shud i stop thinking abt it altogether? Im a bit afraid if nt 'very' afraid,coz i already did the worse by cntcting him in the 1st place several months ago. but m feelin like a ***** :@ why dont i simply stop botherin abt boys n instead concentrate on my studies! i need emotional support at the moment.
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#2
Nov 13, 2010, 02:18 PM
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the problem is that he hasnt said much. he just said 'its ok..i dont have time for these things'
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#3
Nov 13, 2010, 04:45 PM
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he is giving you an out. take it.
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How I long to be up rather than down, the eternal sorrow that I only escape for short periods. This must be how Persephone felt. "Sleep. Those little slices of Death. How I loathe them." Edgar Allan Poe Loving yourself must come first from there comes love for everything else. |
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#4
Nov 13, 2010, 04:58 PM
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Bridgie u mean i should stop worrying about it?
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Nov 13, 2010, 05:09 PM
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you made your apology he said he was done and goodbye. consider it done and over with. dont worry anymore about what was done. focus now on what you are doing. stay positive about yourself and be strong in staying away from him. this is your opportunity to start clean.
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How I long to be up rather than down, the eternal sorrow that I only escape for short periods. This must be how Persephone felt. "Sleep. Those little slices of Death. How I loathe them." Edgar Allan Poe Loving yourself must come first from there comes love for everything else. |
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Nov 13, 2010, 05:23 PM
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Ok. I think u r right. I must focus on something else. Thank u for the input.
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| Belle1979
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#7
Nov 14, 2010, 12:28 PM
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lets see what happens.... i must not expect good from him either
 he's not what i have always thought about him. if he tells other ppl about what i've done it will become very hard for me to move around! ppl will laugh at me.
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#8
Nov 14, 2010, 01:59 PM
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Try not to worry about the what ifs. You will drive yourself crazy with the what ifs.
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| Belle1979, hoping4best, Rhiannonsmoon
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#9
Nov 14, 2010, 06:14 PM
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So true bridgie! the what ifs and could have beens.. everyone worst enemy
 Jiakhan - if he shows or tells people then you know exactly what sort of person he is - remembering you already know that he is horrid and that you deserve better  It's time to walk away, to forget him and move past everything that has happened. I never tell people what to do, espcially seeing I have the most trouble getting over things, but I do believe that he has shown you that there is no possibility of anything between you, he has never encouraged you to pursue him in friendship or more. One day you will look back and laugh at this. The one thing that I don't want to happen is that you are so focused on this guy that you miss the chance of finding someone that you can be with, relate to and who will love you!
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 How I describe myself: Honest, caring, trustworthy, reliable and generous.
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#10
Nov 14, 2010, 09:03 PM
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Hello ((((jaikhan))))
You've been on about this guy for a long time and I honestly think that you are trying to give him one more chance and another one more chance and another one more chance, in the hope that he will whisk you off your feet and tell you he wants you. Honey you know he doesn't and he isn't a nice person at all really is he? You are too forgiving. I agree so much with Bridgie and Belle. I would stop thinking about him altogether and move on. There is a guy out there for you, but let him decide if he wants you, and watch it blossom from there, Sending you love & hugs  Rhiannon
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| Belle1979
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#11
Nov 15, 2010, 02:42 AM
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Quote:
"One day you will look back and laugh at this." thanks for saying this Belle.... i hope that time comes soon 
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#12
Nov 15, 2010, 02:44 AM
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should i stop talking about him altogether??? do u think it will help me in forgetting how i feel about him and what i've done?
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#13
Nov 15, 2010, 03:31 AM
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jaikhan hon if that would help you I think it's a great idea. But if it helps you to be able to airate about it then we're here to listen and support you
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Peace, the deep imperturbable peace is right there within you, quieten the mind and slow the heart and breathe...breathe in the perfume of the peace rose and allow it to spread throughout your mind body and senses...it can only benefit you and those you care about...I care about you |
| hoping4best
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