Living Situation

I am so pissed off right now. My borther and I decieded to help each other financially and move into together. At the time he knew that I had a cat, Mason whom I love dearly. This was okay. Then It was okay to get another Kitten. Regardless if no one likes it, it is my daughters cat and so my hands are tied and it was originally okay.

Now he is unemployed living off unemployment complaining about the cats. How he picks up after them, and sweeps the litter from the floor. I told him I am never home. The reason I am never home is because there is no point. The house is always a disaster. I am not a cook so I don't dirty dishes, I rarely eat at home. I rarely throw anything away. But I always take out the trash. I refuse to do dishes, I do not find that at all unreasonable considering they are not my dishes.

I can't keep soda in the house. He is freaking out about my cats. All he does is sit in his room all day smoking and playing games. He is thirty years old and has yet to grow up. I was nice enough to let his girlfriend move in officially so she would help out iwth the bills instead of freeload.

He gets his kids on Thursdays and Saturdays. They destroy my house. At 4 and 8

NOw he jsut threatened to kill my cats and got in my face

that is great.....

Sounds like you and your brother need to sit down together and make a list of rules that both of you can agree on. Something that applies to everyone in the house whether it be his kids or your cats. Every household needs structure. I think it would do you all some good really. Just a suggestion..

-Jennifer-