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Old Oct 16, 2003, 03:35 PM
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Well i have some wierd problems with girls. When I first meet girls I'm EXTREMELY shy, for some reason. I can't even look them in the eye?? I have a very hard time communicating with them until i really get to know them. There's a girl I like but i can't really make good conversation with her, and if i do I usually stumble over my words. I know this may seem typical, but i do wierd things around and I can't be myself for some reason. I know i'm not ugly, girls compliment me on my looks, but for some reason I'm still really shy. Anyone have any suggestions or know what my problem may be?? I'm 22 btw


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Old Oct 16, 2003, 11:49 PM
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Truly, Pic: A lot of people feel really shy around members of the opposite sex, and most people find it awkward to start up a conversation initially. I'm not sure what 'wierd' things you are talking about, but I bet it is not as noticeable to others, as it is to you. I hope you keep posting. Best regards.

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Old Oct 17, 2003, 07:44 PM
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I think the best thing you can do is practice. Try it on a stranger a few times.

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Old Oct 18, 2003, 04:44 PM
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Dont feel to bad dont we all have weird problems with girls *giggles* no offense or anyhitng out there!

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Old Oct 18, 2003, 05:38 PM
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I'm female and I have that problem pic. It's been so intense that I have never been married. I'm 41 and past my prime. I had a couple chances to marry good guys, but ran away. I hope you can get past your nervousness. Maybe you can join some sort of a support group or an activity group where you hang around a group interested in the same activities. That would let you get to know people slower and maybe not be as nervous around the ladies.

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