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Old Apr 22, 2011, 11:42 AM
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hey guys, i was bored so i made this questionarre, i'm just curious.

Age when you had your first relationship?

Age when you had your first kiss?

longest relationship?

shortest relationship?

worst relationship problem?

in a current relationship?

how is it?
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Old Apr 22, 2011, 12:51 PM
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My first relationship was at age 18, first kiss age 16, longest relationship was a year and it was a mess, a relationship I should have never gotten into but I was young, naïve and I never thought anyone would pay me any attention in a romantic way and was shocked when someone did, he was manipulative, had a cocaine problem, I don't regret it though because I learned a lot. I am currently in a different relationship and it's amazing and a very healthy one, it may only be my second relationship but I am learning and growing a lot from it, and it helps I am head over hills for the fellow
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Old Apr 22, 2011, 05:05 PM
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1. 12

2. 12

3. 38 years this January

4. 3 months

5. Involved with a trampy girl @15

6. Yes, married.....still

7. Good, but could be better.
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Old Apr 22, 2011, 05:13 PM
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First really real relationship - 20

First kiss - 16

Longest relationship - will be 4 years very soon

Shortest - a few dates (but don't really consider those relationships). so 3 months.

Worst problem - abuse (from first serious relationship)

Current - YUP

How is it - going great. Love him soooo much and love his girls. Finally have a family that loves me for me.

So Lxegirl, going to answer your own questionnaire???
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Old Apr 22, 2011, 05:42 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship? "relationship" 14. actual relationship 17.

Age when you had your first kiss? 12

longest relationship? 2.5 years

shortest relationship? 1 month

worst relationship problem? past - abusive. current - communication!!!!

in a current relationship? Yes

how is it? Perty good. Problems just like everyone else but we are learning and able to have constructive arguments now which is awesome.
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Old Apr 22, 2011, 05:59 PM
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ok guys i'll answer my own questionaire lol.

Age when you had your first relationship? 14

Age when you had your first kiss? 14

longest relationship? a year and 3 months

shortest relationship? lets say a month, idk.

worst relationship problem? guy with some personality disorder that wasn't under control at all.

in a current relationship? nope

how is it? n/a
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Old Apr 22, 2011, 06:13 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship? 14

Age when you had your first kiss? 18

longest relationship? 5 years

shortest relationship? 2 or 3 weeks

worst relationship problem? Myself?

in a current relationship? Very much so

how is it? Fantastic when I'm not being a brat. We're getting married in June 2012
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 11:20 AM
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My first relationship was at age 13.
My first kiss was at age 13.
My longest relationship was 20 years
My shortest relationship was 3 monts
My worst relationship problem was when I had a bad manic attack and did hurtful things to my husband. Second to that was the verbal abuse and control in our marriage
Yes, I'm currently in a relationship. We've recently hit a bump in the road. We are very different people our backgrounds and values are different plus he is very laid back and I am very driven. On the positive side he is very kind, caring, smart and supportive (a true polar opposite of my ex husband). I'm at a point though where I don't know if we have a future together because of our differences. I will work on it with my counselor and take it slow and see what happens and not make a rash decision so I guess all in all it's working for now.
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 11:52 AM
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Age when you had your first relationship? 17 years old

Age when you had your first kiss? 15 years old

longest relationship? 9 years

shortest relationship? 8 months

worst relationship problem? cheating - not me

in a current relationship? no

how is it?
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 01:35 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship? N/A
Age when you had your first kiss? N/A
longest relationship? N/A
shortest relationship? N/A
worst relationship problem? N/A
in a current relationship? No
how is it? N/A
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 03:12 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship?
18
Age when you had your first kiss?
17
longest relationship?
32 years
shortest relationship?
3 months
worst relationship problem?
tobacco addiction
in a current relationship?
yes
how is it?
2/10
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 03:27 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship? When I was 12 years old but Proper Adult relationship was when I was 24

Age when you had your first kiss? 12 years old

longest relationship? 2 years

shortest relationship? Less than a month

worst relationship problem? Manic Episodes from me mixed in with Drug/Alcohol abuse by Boyfriend and also no commitment from my latest Boyfriend

in a current relationship? Nope

how is it? N/A
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 03:35 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship?

19

Age when you had your first kiss?

17

longest relationship?

23 years

shortest relationship?

a couple months

worst relationship problem?

gf saw other guys; me and my emotional issues

in a current relationship?

yes

how is it?

very good
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 03:47 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship? 15

Age when you had your first kiss? 13

longest relationship? 5 years

shortest relationship? Hard to say...if you count a 1 night stand, then it would be about 12 hours....otherwise maybe 2 weeks

worst relationship problem? violent sadistic boyfriend that I put up with for way too long...so my problem was low self esteem I guess...

in a current relationship? just celebrated 1st wedding anniversary

how is it? Best one yet
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Old Apr 23, 2011, 03:48 PM
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Age when you had your first relationship?
20 y/o

Age when you had your first kiss?
with another girl - 12 y/o
with a guy 16 y/o

longest relationship?
9 years

shortest relationship?
one night stand

worst relationship problem?
domestic violence

in a current relationship?
nope

how is it?
n/a
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Old Apr 24, 2011, 08:48 AM
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My first relationship was at age 13.
My first kiss was at age 13.
My longest relationship was 20 years
My shortest relationship was 3 monts
My worst relationship problem was when I had a bad manic attack and did hurtful things to my husband. Second to that was the verbal abuse and control in our marriage
Yes, I'm currently in a relationship. We've recently hit a bump in the road. We are very different people our backgrounds and values are different plus he is very laid back and I am very driven. On the positive side he is very kind, caring, smart and supportive (a true polar opposite of my ex husband). I'm at a point though where I don't know if we have a future together because of our differences. I will work on it with my counselor and take it slow and see what happens and not make a rash decision so I guess all in all it's working for now.
awww. i'm praying for you!
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Old Apr 25, 2011, 02:55 AM
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ooh, questionnaires are always fun~!

Age when you had your first relationship?
16

Age when you had your first kiss?
17

longest relationship?
3 years

shortest relationship?
i've only been in one~ -giggles-

worst relationship problem?
the time we spent together felt limited. :c

in a current relationship?
to be honest, i'm not quite sure yet. i would say no..but..

how is it?
complicated~ lols
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Old Apr 25, 2011, 04:56 PM
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First relationship - 13
First kiss - 13
Longest relationship - 4 years, on and off
Shortest relationship - 2 months
Worst relationship problem - co-dependency that ended in a suicide attempt
In a relationship - not really?
How is it - not sure
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Old Apr 25, 2011, 05:14 PM
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First relationship - 16 but the first special one (my big high school crush for like 2 years!!!) 17
First kiss - 17 haha I consider myself a late bloomer but I guess a lot of people here had a "mature" first kiss
Longest relationship - 8 months
Shortest relationship - not long but it depends how you count I guess
Worst relationship problem - Not being happy together
In a relationship - Nope
How is it -
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Old Apr 26, 2011, 08:44 PM
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Great thread but i'll refuse to answer the questions. It's too painful for me to answer them. Not in arelationship right now but i'll leave it for the moment.
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Old Apr 27, 2011, 10:55 AM
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Age when you had your first relationship?
11
Age when you had your first kiss?
17
longest relationship?
4 years
shortest relationship?
1 week
worst relationship problem?
bipolar gf that had drug problems, physical and mental abuse, and cheating all in one relationship
in a current relationship?
yes
how is it?
best so far, engaged
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Old Apr 27, 2011, 09:24 PM
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best so far, engaged
yayyy congrats!
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Old Apr 28, 2011, 07:17 AM
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Thanks, different girl btw, the other one had issues she wasn't ready to deal with.
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Old Apr 28, 2011, 08:17 AM
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Age when you had your first relationship? 13

Age when you had your first kiss? 14

longest relationship? 7 yrs (first hubby)

shortest relationship? 2 weeks (I broke it off b/c he proposed!)

worst relationship problem? me.. it was 99% of the time just me being me!!!!

in a current relationship? Heck no... I"m "toxic".. LOL

how is it? I hate being alone but until I get through more therapy it's what's best for my kids and myself. I need to figured out WHY I do what I do...
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Old Apr 30, 2011, 10:40 AM
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Age when you had your first relationship?
14

Age when you had your first kiss?

14

longest relationship?

4 years

shortest relationship?
High school dating: 2 weeks. I dated one guy about 6 times, with our longevity decreasing by half each time hah. Adult relationship: 6 months

worst relationship problem?
In me; general insecurities about my own sexuality. In my partner, my previous boyfriend didn't do much for my self-esteem. Our relationship couldn't take the strain of his family, and we could not communicate constructively with each other!

in a current relationship?

Yes, been with my boyfriend for about 4 months

how is it?
Very nice The first relationship which I am actually enjoying!
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