crush

crushed on teacher. grrr..i'm 17, he's much older, married, with kids that he sometimes has in class. grrrr.. his class is my last class, at 11:30. i'll stay for "tutoring" but we just talk for hours or until i have to go to work (i have work release). NEED to get out of his class but the school wouldnt allow it. i'm in highschool, what rights do they think i have to change my schedule? grrrr..not thinking its too healthy to be thinking about him as much as i do, bordering on slight obsession..grrr. makes me sound bad.

just had to get that out of my head

You know what... it is very normal to have crushes on teachers especially because the authority position they are in. Also, you realize that they may not always be as old as you think. I dated a guy who could have been my teacher when I was in highschool but since I am now 22 it's not such a big difference. I'm not saying that you should go for him, that happened at our school and both the teacher and student were so embarassed the student had to be switched to another class. You're not bad at all...I had a pretty big crush for a teacher in middle school. Just try to think of them as a really good friend/mentor teachers are people just like everyone else.

yeah, i know. i've had crushes on other teachers. just not when they were my teacher. i've had crushes on my managers too..always older guys..grrrrr..

just frustrated cause i know could never have him. would never go for him. just thinking what if. what if he would. what if his wife leaves. i dont know. wanting love and attention and hes the only person to even sit down and talk to me.

i can shush now.

I am in college and I have "crush " on my professor. I hate to say crush sounds kinda imature. But I dont know what else to call it. I still think about him. I actually signed up for a class next semester just because he was the teacher. I know how you feel. I stay late after class to see him and find some reason to come to his office. I am running out of reasons. I want to tell him so bad but I know I cant. I dont know how to tell you to get through this. But you know sometimes they say its better kept as a fantasy. Good luck.

well im hoping with this thanksgiving break and the christmas break that i find something else to focus on.

"What if." the two saddest words in the English language.

Our craving for recognition, respect, and love....... mixed with rampaging hormones....... boundaries get blurred by head fuzz if we spend too much time in fantasy land. Big trouble lurks around every corner.

Our culture pounds us with images of one-to-one relationships as being the answer to everything that doesn't feel right in our lives. The empty longing to bond is so easily manipulated by advertising and tv til we think we'll just die if we don't get fullfilled "that way" too.

I've discovered that trillions of people are lonely 'cause they're waiting for, or focussed on, that ONE person who will fill this huge empty spot in our hearts. So, I decided to try out "Love the one you're with" like the song says, and train myself to give good vibes: recognition, respect, and love, to everybody I come upon in my daily life. Belive it or not, giving is filling!!! It's not longed for one-on-one cuddle time, but it fills my heart and makes that one-to-one ache small enough so it doesn't run my life. When I was your age, I got involved with sports and little kids who needed safe hugs. Filled me up, way good. Does your school have peer couselors? Do you do art or music or sports or drama or or or? Have fun finding out who you are, what feeds your soul. Helen Keller said, "Life is a great adventure, or nothing." This is your time to bloom yourself! Go girl, go!