[palemoss]

This might be dumb to ask*

I am still reeling from a painful breakup, where I the first go around I broke up with him bc of my eating disorder/bipolar and then we got back together, only for him to seek revenge upon me. Our time back together was horrible. I was exploited; he manipulated me in getting back together only to treat me like vermin on the bottom of a shoe.

I don't understand that type of mentality! How can someone be so cruel?

He has a new gf now. And it is gross to read on his FB & twitter how much he adores her. Why was he never like that with me? Why did he treat me like **** - never complimented me, never drove me anywhere, never paid, criticized what I wore, insulted me, was sarcastic, never introduced me to his friends.

WHY?

And yet, with this new girl she is treated like a queen.

I pray he realizes one day how special I am, and despite my illness I tried my best.

[lxegirl]

hey girl, its his loss. if he cared about you, he'd really show it. you are special and thats his fault for not seeing it. i think its safe to say that he's a jerk. hang in there, hon. you'll get over this soon enough

Hello, palemoss. That guy has some serious issues. Seems he wants to continue the abuse through the FB and twitter posts. Please consider putting him on ignore and going on with your life. Letting what he says bother you benefits you not at all. Let him go.

[Leed]

I agree with the others. Take him off your "friends" list on Facebook so you can't see what he posts anymore -- and forget this jerk. He's doing this just to hurt you -- and he KNOWS you can see what he posts. So "unfriend" him, and get on with things. It's HIS loss, not yours. He doesn't DESERVE you -- you're too special for him.

And don't worry -- he'll dump this girl too, just like he dumped you. That's the kind of jerk he is. Hugs, Lee

[Leed]

[quote=Leed;1843961]I agree with the others. Take him off your "friends" list on Facebook so you can't see what he posts anymore -- and forget this jerk. He's doing this just to hurt you -- and he KNOWS you can see what he posts. So "unfriend" him, and get on with things. It's his loss not yours. He doesn't DESERVE you. You're too special for him.

And don't worry. He'll treat this girl just as bad as he treated you. Wait and see. Hugs, Lee

[Citrine]

Hey I know this guy, is his name?......not really but I had one the same. It took months of agony and pulling myself to pieces. I never ever thought I would get over it. You are feeling this right now I can hear.

I made some new male friends as a way to restore my faith in men. Just friends. A few were also a bit jerky, sadly and a couple are still friends but guess what..1 became my `other' and was the total opposite of all I had just known and left behind. I never expected this but it was instantaneous for us both. In an instant this amazing, loving, affectionate man made me feel like a real woman..something cold misery *** didnt!!

Some men are just... well I cant say it without sounding like a biatch. Theres something wrong with that guy Palemoss. Believe me, I know there is. I hope you find yourself a true woman loving man also. It isnt your fault!

[palemoss]

thank you all

[SlatkaMala]

It won't be long before he does the same thing to her. These types have a pattern.