[sleepless0x]

so, it's been awhile since i've seen the previous boyfriend i had, whom i have fallen in love with. i started dating another guy, and he's been a lot better to me than my ex had. the best way to describe my situation is if you listened to the song "Judas" by Lady Gaga. me and my ex started talking again, and no matter what i do i always think of him, and i'm trying so hard to avoid these feelings so i can be happy with my boyfriend but it's becoming difficult for me. i even moved out of the city to be with my boyfriend, but i'm really tempted to move back and go back to him. my ex is the ideal guy i want to be with, but my boyfriend tries really hard to make me happy..

[Perna]

It sounds like you are confused about whether you want to be with your ex or current boyfriend. Only you can decide that and make it work/happen. If you are sabotaging yourself by talking with your ex- you can't keep the current boyfriend thing going. However, if you did not like how your ex- treated you and broke up because of that, he's probably not changed and will probably mistreat you again. But, if he's your "ideal guy" you want to be with, I would apologize to the current boyfriend for stringing him along and go back to the ex. If you know the ex being "ideal" is just your wishful thinking, I'd work harder at cutting off communications with the ex.

[danii24]

r u only tinkn of ur ex because u recently started tlkn again r have u been tinkn of him the whole time ? thats what u need to figure out.

[Leed]

I think you answered your own question. You said that your current boyfriend treats you better than your old one did. Stay with the current boyfriend!!! It sounds like he's a winner!