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#1
Aug 21, 2011, 11:07 AM
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So I met this guy I seen pics we haven't met yet but he is sweet I been through alot with relationships which I'm not ready to share but hope one day I will be able to but this guy makes me smile and laugh he made me so happy but only two if my friends know cuz I know online dating yeah stupid what do you think about should I just keep going or us this ti risky to move in with him after graduation from community college
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Aug 21, 2011, 12:22 PM
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I don't think it is stupid. I met my SO online! I think if you want to meet him make sure its in a public place. NEVER drink or use a substance that can impair your judgement. Never go to his home alone. When I first met my SO my dad and sister came with me and he stayed in a house full of people over night.
Also traditionally date for a while. It is not smart to move in with someone after you've met them once in real life. Get to know them in person first. That is a general rule of thumb because moving in together so quickly can add a lot of temptation. When you traditionally date you allow yourself to make boundaries easier.
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Aug 21, 2011, 12:31 PM
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In this situation, planning to move in with him is NOT a good idea. Give the relationship time to grow first.
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Aug 21, 2011, 01:25 PM
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Well I'm a. Junior in highschool it will be about 5 years till I do anyways
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Aug 21, 2011, 06:02 PM
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Definitely date for awhile, you can get to know someone online but you do miss part of the body launguage and little quirks people have, quirks that could drive you insane when you move in together. You need time to translate that relationship face to face before making such a big move. Being with someone in person is much different. Be safe when you met him, make sure it is public and never go anywhere private or alone with him. I met my current boyfriend on an online dating site, we met in public and went out to dinner, we dated for awhile before we moved in together. Stay safe.
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Aug 21, 2011, 06:12 PM
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I certainly will thanks guys
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