I feel so lonely and lost!

Is there anybody out there for me? I feel so lonely....most of my friends found a partner and they moved on with their life, some are pregnant even...that means I left behind!
I feel so lost and lonely....Is there anybody out there for me?
I have very good life...and I appreciate it...I have hobbies that keeps me quiet busy....I meet people, but it looks like nobody is my match....Am I so different? Am I in a wrong place all the time?
I dated my neighbor for a little while, but we were so different that it was impossible to be together....basically, he doesn't like to do anything, he just wants to stay at home, lay on the bed and watch TV from his small monitor...He doesn't eat any kinds of fruits or vegetable which leaves him with a bad breath (and I'm too shy to tell him)....and at top of that, I don't feel that Chemistry with him
I'm just wondering if I would ever meet that special one, or I'm just wasting my time waiting for something unreal?
-LostGurl

Hi LostGurl - no need to compare yourself with others. Sounds like you have
interests and hobbies, you like to meet people. Just because you haven't yet
met someone, doesn't mean that you're different. Maybe try not to think of
yourself as lost or waiting. There are things that you can do in order to not
be lonely. Sometimes we meet people when we are not trying to.

Just because you are in a relationship, that doesnt mean the feeling of lonely and lost goes away. I was lonely and lost, got into a relationship and it went away for about 7 months, than it reappeared and Im still in that relationship. I feel lonely and lost and I'm in a relationship so what does that say? I tried to get rid of the lonely and lost feelings by getting into a relationship and it didnt work so a relationship may not be the answer to your feelings.

I have to agree with cook32263 -- a relationship may not be the answer to your feelings. I can relate to you, because I feel very much alone too, It feels like I will never find someone to start a life with and all my friends are starting families too. But the most important thing is to learn how to feel happy and content with yourself. Even in a relationship, you are going to find many times where you will have to lean on yourself. You have to find a way to be happy with yourself before you can learn to be happy with another person. Just some words from experience. If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to send me a private message. ;-)

I feel lonley all the time. I was in a relationship a few years ago and he broke up with me saying that I am always depressed. He said I am better off to live a lonely life. That hurt my feelings. Now, I am lonley and living lonely life. I am afraid to enter another relationship because I dont want anothe rman to treat me poorly due to my mental illness. I may have mental illness but I also have dignity.

Agreed with cock. Being in a relationship doesnt guarantee complete filling of the void created inside u. Anyhow, i hope u find someone who u can love and who loves u back!

Hello there I agree with the above posters in that relationships don't always solve everything. BUT, although you aren't in a romantic relationship, you can always find happiness in platonic relationships with friends, family or even strangers. Some of my most fulfilling conversations in life have been with strangers, people that I didn't know or will never see again. When you have a true and genuine conversation with a stranger, you will find that you are indeed not alone in this world. As far as seeking a romantic partner, you are just frustrated it's not going great right now. You are struggling. But keep up the work and someone will come along eventually. There's billions of people out there! Although you haven't been connecting with some of the recent ones, that does not mean you can't connect with anyone. Humans are very complicated so it's often hard to connect with people. Some people have any easy time with it, some don't. Keep your head up and good luck.

sometimes when u least expect it the one will arrive. be patient and enjoy life. there is someone out there for everyone, its just not that time yet.