Boyfriend problems, please help

I haven't been to school in a month because I had surgery. Today was my first day back at school. In my first class me and my friend Taylor were talking. I asked her what all happend at school in the month I was gone. She told me a few things then asked me "What happend with you and your boyfriend?". I asked her what she ment. She told me that Chris, my boyfriend, was going around school trying to get with other girls. She said he was telling people that we broke up and that he was looking for a new girlfriend. I was shocked.

Chris and I have been dating for just over a month. When I was out of school, we would call each other as much as possible. We don't fight. Everything seemed just fine untill today.

Taylor is a friend of mine. I don't trust her very much, but I still think of her as a "school friend". She bullied me from 6th grade untill 8th grade, she lies a lot, and she loves drama.

I know that Taylor could just be lying, but I'm not sure. I haven't been able to talk to Chris about this, so I don't know what he's going to say. I'm so worried that what Taylor said is true.

I don't know how to ask Chris about this. I'm really upset about this and I do stupid things when I'm upset. I don't want to talk to Chris right know because I'm afraid that I'm going to say something that I shouldn't. I haven't seen or talked to him all day. He wasn't at school and he hasn't called me.

I need help.
What should I say to him? How should I ask him about this? What should I do!!??

well if this girl, taylor, is telling the truth..
then maybe your boyfriend has lost perspective.
you said that you have been dating for just over a month,
and you were in surgery for most of that month?
so scince you havnt been physicaly together throughout most of the relationship,
he probably isnt feeling very connected to you right now. (time will fix that)
it's in our nature to branch out and look to other people for support.
even if it is with the oppisite sex, (how ever attractive they may be.)
i would sugest having a dtr (define the relationship) conversation with him.

but if she was lying
then you might need to have a conversation with her about the way you feel about her,
or even have your boyfriend be there for support.

i hope i helped

Thank you vickienc16,

We've been dating for a month and about 11 days. I had 2 surgeries and was in and out of the hospital for a month.
The 'not feeling very connected' thing makes sense.
If Taylor is lying then I won't talk to her anymore. I don't want people around me that would lie about something like that.

Yes, you did help

it's a very good idea to keep those kinds of people out of your life,
just remember that you still have to see her at school all the time.
im glad i could help
so are you still in high school?
i graduated a little over a year ago, lol.
i hope the drama dies down soon, HS drama is the worst!

I know, I hate those kinds of people.

Yes, I'm still in high school. Still have 2 and a half years left.

Do you have any other friends you could ask about this? I would go to your bf and tell him what was told to you and ask why someone would tell you this.
The best place is always the direct source

I hope you get to feeling better

Best wishes
Typo

I tried to ask him about it, but didn't get the chance.

Today, after telling me he loved me, he broke up with me. We were talking and he asked me if I really loved him. I said I did. He asked me if we could take a break from our relationship and just be friends. I was so shocked. He said he has a lot going on in his life and he doesn't think I'm ready for a relationship. He said he just wants to be friends and maybe later we can get back together.

I don't know what to do. I really do like him, I mean maybe even love. I don't like to use the word love so easily, but I really do think I love him. He's the first male that I've trusted since a man tried to force himself on me a few years ago.

I guess there really isn't anything for me to do.