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Dec 11, 2005, 05:50 PM
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There is this guy. We met at the beginning of the semester. He calls me several times a week. I see him infrequently, but we have hung out alone several times (diners and such). Wierd, but we never talk about having a relationship..or dating. We just call. Well i just invited him to a holiday party with me and he declined.. He hasn't really called me since. Whats going on?? Should i be direct and ask.. whats going on with us.. are we just friends?? ugh!!!!!!!!!
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Dec 11, 2005, 06:10 PM
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Wow, I didn't do much dating, so I don't think I would be much help. Just wanted you to know I read and hopefully you can find out what's going on with him/you. =) {{{esther}}}
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Dec 11, 2005, 06:16 PM
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Hi! I would throw the ball back into his court and move on with my life...and wait and see if he starts to call you. If he does..I would ask him THEN.
TGC
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Dec 11, 2005, 09:36 PM
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i'd let it go and see if he contacts you again. if he does, ask him about it.
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Dec 11, 2005, 11:26 PM
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Hmm...this is a tough one. Personally, I'd go and ask him what's up, but then on the other hand if you give him time to think about things he may contact you again. So I guess it's your call about what you want to do.
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Dec 17, 2005, 09:19 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
esthersvirtue said: There is this guy. We met at the beginning of the semester. He calls me several times a week. I see him infrequently, but we have hung out alone several times (diners and such). Wierd, but we never talk about having a relationship..or dating. We just call. Well i just invited him to a holiday party with me and he declined.. He hasn't really called me since. Whats going on?? Should i be direct and ask.. whats going on with us.. are we just friends?? ugh!!!!!!!!! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Esthersvirtue, Yes, you need to clarify what's going on. So, the next time he calls, ask him. |
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#7
Dec 17, 2005, 09:31 PM
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Yes, Virginia...you DO have a relationship...it's called casual friendship...and he isn't ready to take any steps to the next level. You talk and occaisionally "hang out"....who knows?...it could progress, or it might not. But my personal experience (for what its worth) is that guys in particular are not too keen on feeling pressured in a particular direction..You can either enjoy what you currently have and hope that it progresses naturally, or you can let the friendship go if you're not satisfied or willing to wait.....good luck
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#8
Jan 11, 2006, 12:20 AM
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HE LIKES ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok. its been awhile but we had a serious conversation and he told me he likes me.. and we are dating. Yea!!! |
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#9
Jan 11, 2006, 04:34 PM
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congrats!
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#10
Jan 26, 2006, 11:00 PM
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I am so happy for you. Yeay!
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#11
Jan 27, 2006, 03:17 PM
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Wit woo! x
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