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Dec 07, 2011, 12:33 PM
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I broke up with him. It went relatively well, no screaming or freaking out- thought there were some tears, some on my part too. I felt really bad- but we ended up hugging and pouring a little sparkling white wine and we did a toast- wishing each other well in the future (his idea). We might even remain friends. He said he has no bad feelings towards me because I've always been so nice . .. It was tough to do, but I'm glad I got through it.
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 roads, salukigirl
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Dec 07, 2011, 12:47 PM
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Congratulations. Sounds like it was the right thing to do.
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Dec 07, 2011, 02:22 PM
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Good job, Daisy! There is no easy way to deal with this (at least, in my opinion) and you handled it very well. Is he the one who is moving out now? Is he making arrangements for this?
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Dec 07, 2011, 09:39 PM
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I'm so glad it went well. Probably feels like a load lifted off your shoulders. I hope the good feelings continue. Stay strong!
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Dec 07, 2011, 11:29 PM
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Ich bin froh, dass gut gelaufen für Sie! Weg zu gehen!
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Dec 09, 2011, 08:23 PM
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Yes, he is moving out- as it was my apartment to begin with- after the initial break up, the aftermath has been the easiest I've ever experienced. We're still relatively good friends, just without the romantic aspect anymore. He's taking it relatively well I think. He told me earlier he will possibly move out as early as Tuesday. Yesterday he was at work early in the morning and It was my saturday (no work) and he then didn'y come back until a bit before 1am- so it was a nice practice for being on my own again- and he was apologetic about coming back so late. It's a bit hard for me- I almost feel like I got dumped- but I know it's for the best- remembering all the little things that I have issues with that he could never get better at on top of everything I said in my initial pre break up post. Like: sometimes peeing on the floor intead of the toilet- never cleaning up his extra spray when he does, drinking more often than I would like, being difficult to talk to when he's drunk (defensive/argumentative), leaving the toothpast top off- not doing his part around the house, taking me for granted, etc. It is for the best. And yes it's a hge relief.
Last edited by DespondentDaisy; Dec 09, 2011 at 08:24 PM. Reason: sp |
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