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Old Feb 07, 2006, 11:42 AM
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Does any one else feel like this....

You love someone will all your heart and soul when they are away from you, out of your physical range / presence, but when you actually get to see them - you can have such great anger and pain where they are concerned (and) love all mixed together?

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Old Feb 07, 2006, 12:03 PM
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((((((((((((Rhapsody))))))))))))))))
i wish i knew the words to make you feel better right now. i know youre having a rough day. i can relate. and that feeling youre describing, i know. i care so much for the person in my life, cant imagine what i would do without him, but the moment we're together i begin to fall apart. i want to give him what he wants but doing so tears me apart and leaves me just an empty shell, tired and sad and lonely and hurting. some of the anger is in knowing that i cant seem to fix this, and some is directed at him for not understanding. i know that hes everything to me but the moment were together i cant separate what i've been through from who i am now, and so its tearing us apart.
i hope you find a way to reconcile all these mixed feelings, to be happy when youre with the one you love, and not pained and angry.
sending hugs your way.
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Old Feb 07, 2006, 12:27 PM
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I guess it is TRUE.... one person can be our Power our Pleasure our Pain - all in one.

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Old Feb 07, 2006, 12:38 PM
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Boy do I feel ya on this one To many feelings mixed together..... confused!
My bf I love with everything in me, but when we are together, I can't stand him, I look at him and get so po'd about the way he treats me, the name calling, the distance he puts between us, I gues I just know what i need from a relationship, isn't him, and that scares me!!
Sorry for rambling,,, Just wanted tolet you know I understand and that I hope you find peace in your love and life!! PM me if you need
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Old Feb 07, 2006, 12:44 PM
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Thanks.... I guess I just needed to express that I HATE IT when the PAIN has to come from a loved one.... that should never have to be our reality (and) when it is - it SUCKS!!!

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Old Feb 08, 2006, 02:13 PM
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I usually am the opposite I think. Like when they're with me I can feel all loving and all that, but when they're away...it's like I can't stand them...
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Old Feb 08, 2006, 03:02 PM
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I guess for ME - I hurt when I see the face of a loved one that has hurt me and I still have not gotten over all the pain yet .... hence the anger at their presence.

AND YES.... It is possible to love and hate at the same time and with the same person.

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