Fiance looks at young girls...?

I'm so glad that you took those very important first steps. Please let us know how he responds to the conversation this week, as I'm sure we're all hoping he takes his own positive steps to get help.

Dear Sunflower, just wanted to know how you're doing.
We're still here & want the best for you.
If you feel like it let us know how things are.

Take good care.

I can't imagine what I would do if the girl I had intended to marry had a similar issue. It isn't like I can just rewire my heart not to be in intense pain if I were to leave her. So sorry Sunflower.

Sunflower,

Glad to hear that you talked to him about this. There are a lot of people who would turn a blind eye to this and look the other way. You are strong! Good luck!

You need to get out of this relationship. Seriously, get out before it's too late.

That makes me sick. You realise he is basically financially supporting pedophilia by hitting up these sites? It's not a victimless crime.

That's worse because she's closer to you, but it's better becauseat least he's not supporting a pedophilia ring by having it on his phone.

Unless he took the photo surreptitiously, it's essentially a victimless crime . .. although, this is depending on what kind of photo it is.

I don't think you're taking this seriously enough. Have you let him know that by visiting these sites, he's encouraging child sex abuse in this country and in others? He's supporting pedophilia. I don't know if what he's doing is technically a crime in your country, but I hope it is.

I would have a talk or some sort of therapist intervention with him so he knows how serious his actions are.

EDIT: Ok, I see you have addressed a lot of this already Carry on.

Hey Sunflower. Things going well, I hope?