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Old Apr 22, 2012, 06:16 PM
Tshepnyce Tshepnyce is offline
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I'm a 24yr old guy in a relationship with 21yr old.
My partner and I we stay together and we enjoy one anothers company.
At some stages it seems like he does not respect me because he'd do the opposite of what we have agreed on, and when I question him about it he doesn't answer.
I become angry when one is not responding when I'm talkin to, and end up saying things I wish not to say.

My boyfriend likes acting up on me and cause drama out of nowhere.
What must I do?
Should I just ignore him and act as if nothing ever happend?

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Old Apr 22, 2012, 11:39 PM
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Just remember that it takes TWO to fight. If one doesn't want to fight, then there won't be one. You can't fight alone.

If he wants to have a "snit" --- just let him carry on. If you don't pay attention to him, he'll get tired of doing it and he'll stop. You can always leave the room.

If he does the opposite of what you BOTH have agreed upon, perhaps you two aren't really right for each other afterall. Seems to me like he likes to start trouble. I'm not sure I could live with someone like that for very long. You might want to sit down and talk about the future of your relationship.

Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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Old Apr 23, 2012, 12:08 AM
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If he does the opposite of what you BOTH have agreed upon, perhaps you two aren't really right for each other afterall. Seems to me like he likes to start trouble. I'm not sure I could live with someone like that for very long. You might want to sit down and talk about the future of your relationship.
Yup. This guy's setting off my red flags. You're still young, there's plenty of better guys out there.
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Old Apr 23, 2012, 01:26 AM
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This does not sound like a healthy relationship. You can do better.
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