any suggestion and advice.

being with my boyfriend for a year is like a roller coaster but since we both love each other we still keep going. Its been 4 mos now that i move in with him lets say we have a good time together then one day we argued i called him -this and that- after that incident he is cold but we make up and we argued again i said it to him again but i apologized ( i know its all my fault). and he give up on me already but even he said that we still kiss n hug each other but no more body contact. Nothing change for my daily routine like get up early in the morning make breakfast n prepare his lunch and when his home dinner is ready. We talk we hug we kiss goodnight n goodbye and thats it. I love him so much and he loves me too. When i was in other state he went there and brought me home to his house that would be enough to prove that he really love me. But things change, he is mean and rude to me now.. He said his not gonna kick me out but if i could find a room to move. I am confused of everything, one day their' a guy came to me n sit beside me he was jelous, he loves me, he doesn't want to lose me but why he wants me to move. he said we still gonna see each other have dinner together n go to a movie. Why is it like that?? i am so confused. Do i have to fight and keep going or be gone.. He is my everything thoug, i can't afford to lose him. I work my *** just to save this relationship.

Hey here If it was me I'd have been gone long ago but if you are determined to continue this "relationship" then I wish you good luck.

hey maricris. i'm sorry but this isn't love, you don't treat people this way if you truly love them, no matter what problems you may have. it sounds to me like he is a control freak who wants it all his own way. it sounds like he just wants you around for when it suits him, at a loose end for dinner or a movie etc. i don't mean this to sound cruel it's just my opinion as a woman who has had two violent marriages, both men were also major control freaks. i went thru years of hell with both and not one friend felt they had the right to "lecture" me with the truth. i wish they had.

anyways, if you really do feel the need to carry on this relationship ... good luck but i really don't see this ever being the relationship you need or want.

I think he has emotionally checked out of the relationship and that's why his reactions might seem rude and mean to you. It takes two to make a relationship work and for that reason I wouldn't spend much time and energy on this relationship anymore if I were you. That's my two cents...

It does take two. Hopefully he will change his mind. In the mean time I would be looking for a way to move if possible. I wish you well.

If you are just kissing and hugging and no more body contact and he's asked you to move, it sounds like it is over. Jealousy is selfish, not related to love so the fact that he was jealous of you sitting next to another guy, that does not mean he loves you, just that he's selfish and thinks of you as "his" (rather than as your own self). I would leave, move on.