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Old Apr 08, 2006, 05:23 AM
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I hate that- sorry, all the fields are not filled in. Please go back-, and the whole post has been deleted!! I'm just feeling moany tonight, sorry. Hubby came by a while ago and picked up the rest of his clothes and stuff, like some photos and ornamnets. It is feeling so final, this separation thing. I don't know if i really believed we would try to work things out, but i have been willing to give it a go. He doesn't want to give it a go tho- he can't be bothered. I'm not the wife he wants, or words to that affect (actually, that was the funny bit becoz when he asked me when he said it I showed him the message on my mobile- he had txted me that!). But i'm just feeling really empty, hollow, and unsure of where i'm going at the mo. I'm really confused...
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Old Apr 08, 2006, 08:08 AM
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(((Irish)))

Sorry..hope that u will be okay during this transition..can relate to the deafening silence as someone picks up the remnants of a relationship..know that u r in my thoughts and prayers..empty, hollow confused..those really fit the experience of watching someone picking and choosing what they want to leave with..and all u r left with is the shutting of the door..and the pain..take care.
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Old Apr 08, 2006, 11:17 AM
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I am very sorry for what you are going through. It must be very painful and frightening.

My thoughts will be with you.
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Old Apr 08, 2006, 10:27 PM
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i'm so sorry for your pain. we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. xoxoxo pat
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Old Apr 09, 2006, 09:19 AM
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((((((((((((irishj)))))))))))))) my thoughts are with you on this dificulit time
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Old Apr 09, 2006, 02:10 PM
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Irish, I'm in the same position as you are right now. Have you read any of my thread I have on this forum?

Right now I'm doing okay because he's been gone since Friday morning. He's due to come get more of his things tomorrow. I'll probably be feeling much like you are right now. I can already feel the dread.

Would you consider reading my thread? I've gotten much wonderful advise and support. Since you're going through the same thing, some of that might help you, too.

My heart goes out to you. We're pretty much in the same boat.

Take care of YOU. No matter how selfish it might seem, it's NOT.
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Old Apr 09, 2006, 06:52 PM
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Thanks to everyone for their replies and support. I will go now and read your thread SeptemberMorn. I haven't really had the concentration to sit down and read too many posts, just the odd one here and there. I am so sorry you are going through this too. At least I am not alone, altho it is not the position ppl really want to find themselves in. I just have to mamke sure I get up in the mornings- a bit difficult not too with 2 kids wanting breakfast, getting taken to school etc! It would be all too easy to stay in bed- something I am very good at! Take care empty, hollow and confused...
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Old Apr 10, 2006, 02:52 AM
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hey guys i'm new and i need to talk to sum 1 to clear this out of my mind
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Old Apr 10, 2006, 04:12 AM
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You need to start your own thread in the most appropriate forum, My. You'll get the attention you need that way.

And BTW, it's considered hijacking a thread when you start a new subject in the middle. I know you didn't mean to, but it's good to know. empty, hollow and confused...
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