losing my mind....

Ok I been with my boyfriend off and on for the past 2 years and I don't know what it is I can't seem to move on I don't know if I need help or what I talk to my friends they all say the same thing to leave him he has alot of female friends most of them he went to school with or worked with and he had a lot of sex partners before me he says that he's a changed man and that he has never cheated on me the reason I broke up with him the first time he was still talking to his ex and he said things that I didn't like and I went threw his phone and facebook and I just didn't like it or wanted to put up with it so I broke up with him but then we ended up getting back together I haven't gone threw his phone this time I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt and now that im pregnant it seems like were always arguing about the same thing him and his ways of why he talks to other females and why he has to lie about things which he says he don't there was this girl that I caught him talking to he says she was just a friend it was casual talk so I found out who she was and she tells me more then what he lead me to believe about her being just a friend we got into it of course and he denied it all and says that she was lying and just wanted what I had I again broke up with him and didn't want anything to do with him but me being pregnant he wasn't going to let me go that easy...its hard I pretend like im ok we haven't talked about it since that happened but deep down inside I'm still hurt and I want to trust him but I just can't allow myself to and its eating me up inside I just don't know what to do I try not to stress cus of the baby but its hard I hate to look at him and have negative thought s and wonder who he's talking to every time hes on his phone please help me.... I don't know how to talk to him to tell him how I really feel

You just need to be honest and tell him exactly what you told us -- that you don't LIKE the fact that he's constantly lying and talking to other women! Ask HIM how HE would feel if you did the same thing! Would he like it? Would he want you talking to your ex's or make friends all the time? Would that make him mad? Sure it would! And he would make you stop!!!

There is NOT a double standard, even if he thinks there is. If he wants a relationship, then he HAS to behave himself. And he's going to be a FATHER so he has to behave himself! He has to be a role model for his child! So tell him to ACT like one! Or else he can just get OUT.

You need to stand by what you say too -- don't just threaten. You have to MEAN what you say. I wish you the best of luck, sweetie. Take care of yourself for the sake of your baby too! God bless & keep us posted. Hugs, Lee