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Old Oct 09, 2012, 02:43 AM
Iamnutty Iamnutty is offline
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I was nearly murdered by my ex Oct 7th, 2001

I have been single since then. I am now in my mid 30's and I feel like I am being ripped off. He left me in such a mess, I cant and dont want to even go there again.

Is there any hope? He not only almost murdered me, he commited ever sin against a spouse that one could.

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Old Oct 09, 2012, 03:24 AM
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Dear Lord, I'm so sorry that happened to you. Thank God you're alive! Are you physically okay now?

How are you being ripped off? Did he leave you will all the bills? Didn't your divorce lawyer make the bills 50/50?? Why isn't HE paying some of them? Is that what the problem is?

Can you tell us what the problem is sweetie? How can we help you?

Again, I'm so very sorry for what happened to you. If you want to talk privately, you can message me if you'd like. God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee
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Old Oct 10, 2012, 01:22 AM
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I'm so sorry...no one deserves that.

I know dating again must be a scary prospect given what you've been through, but you've got to understand that not all men are like him. You can't know until you try to find a good one, you know?

Please know you're in my prayers. I wish you my very best.

Hugs,
Harley
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Old Oct 12, 2012, 12:28 AM
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(((Iamnutty)))

Have you gone into therapy and/or support groups, in order to work through these emotions and gain support from other people (who've been in similar situations)? If not, I'd highly recommend that you start there.

You have experienced horrible things, with a man that was supposed to love you & honor you. Most men are not like your ex-hub. But, you still need to work through these things. The memories, the emotional feelings, repercussions on your life. All have had a dramatic impact on your life ~ very gentle hugs to you!
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