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Jun 10, 2006, 02:28 AM
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I feel like Andy is being quite selfish tonight. I mean he isn't thinking about what I may be going through at all. Instead he's more concerned with himself and his wants and desires. It's like he doesn't care how I'm feeling.
He had a fit when I didn't feel like kissing him tonight because I was so agitated and annoyed. It's always all about him. It's never about respecting me and my feelings. I can't live like this when I'm being abused in such a way that I am made to feel like I'm the screw-up when it's not my fault! It's not my fault that he's not commpassionate or sympathetic enough or is willing to respect my boundaries. I'm always the one that has to cater to him. I have to respect him but it's never a 2-way street. He says he respects me and all that, but he really doesn't when he gets so upset and then says in a cocky tone "well, I'll get out of your way so you can be alone." I just want to tell him where to go so badly!
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Jun 10, 2006, 01:10 PM
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((((((((((Lexicon)))))))) I am so sorry... I can understand the issue, though I know Glenn loves me deeply he does not understand by half. I hope that your day gets better. Linda
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Jun 10, 2006, 01:24 PM
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I'd print that exact thing you just typed up there and give it to him when your not around so he has time to think about it. Sometimes men can't comprehend the words compassionate and sympathetic.....sometimes they need time alone to think about. They can allow the mochoness to elude aside since the woman ain't around I guess.
Good luck girl.
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Jun 11, 2006, 10:51 AM
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Desirae, is so right with this. I find they can say or do something, honestly without thinking before they open their mouth, and then have not a clue of the affect on others.
I have noticed as we get older (at least my husband and I)that he has become more compassionate or perhaps, after being together for so long,I've toughened to his lack of compassion?? I don't know, they are complicated like they say us, women, are.
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Jun 11, 2006, 10:56 AM
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Lex it's not your fault, he's the one stuck in the little boy mode, just keep doing what you need to and tc
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