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Apr 20, 2013, 06:50 PM
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last night my ex who mentally/still abuse me contacted me alot. i never answered though. he sent me over 50 textx, called me 100 times, made my voicemail box full and said things like he loves me he knows iam mad at him which obviously its beyond that. he said he wants to talk to me for just 5min, he wanted me to meet him at the park late last night, he said maybe he deserves me not talking to him, i can fix alot give me a chance was another thing he said, he says im throwing him under the bus cuz iam not answering him. he even started to cry in one voicemail...
as i mentioned before iam ignoring all this because right now at the moment i can NOT change my number for personal reasons i am very hesitant to go to the police because iam just scared and i dont like to go to them |
 Anonymous32810, BonnieG2010, Gloom, spondiferous
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Apr 20, 2013, 07:36 PM
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If you have told him to not contact you and he is anyway, and you feel he is a threat, by all means contact the police. It might not only be for your own protection, but for his. It is okay to contact police when you are afraid of someone you feel could be a danger.
You aren't throwing him under the bus, of course; he is harassing you. I'm sorry you are going through this. |
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Apr 20, 2013, 10:35 PM
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If you need to, go to stay somewhere else, find a safe house for women in your area via a hotline or community resource; otherwise I would echo echoes...safety first. |
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Apr 20, 2013, 11:15 PM
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Welcome to PC, melanie. Sorry to hear you're having such a hard time creating a safe environment for yourself right now. I agree with the others; it sounds like some steps are required in order to do this. Calling the police and/or going to a shelter sound like good bets right now. You might also want to consider staying with someone else if a shelter is not an option, but I would definitely continue to not talk to him; it sounds like the last thing he needs is ammo.
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Apr 20, 2013, 11:59 PM
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Yes, I agree. It might be time to spend a few days in a domestic violence shelter if you are afraid of him.
If you are in danger: Call 911 Your local hotline or U.S. hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233)
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#6
Apr 21, 2013, 12:32 AM
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Can't you block his number? That's the first thing I would do anyway...
Please stay safe 
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#7
Apr 21, 2013, 10:53 PM
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Please melanie, let us know how you're doing and if you have any news.
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#8
Apr 22, 2013, 02:38 PM
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In my county the police would not be the right venue. You need to go to court and file for an RO (restraining order). the police ENFORCE RO's. Th court ISSUES RO's.
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Apr 23, 2013, 11:56 AM
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How long were you together? What are your ages? Why did you break up?
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#10
Apr 23, 2013, 02:50 PM
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How about having a male friend answering to him? just like he is your boyfriend and politely questions him about what does he want from you.
Can you give you phone to a male friend / brother for a few days and see what happens? |
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