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Old May 06, 2013, 07:48 PM
dogzrule dogzrule is offline
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I just started dating someone I've known for about three years as a friend. We're taking things slow, as I just got out of an abusive relationship a few months ago. He's been super supportive of taking things slowly and it really makes me trust him. He told me the other day that he cross dresses. I have absolutely no problem with this, I'm really just afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. He told me I could ask him anything I wanted and I have asked him some questions. I guess I just want to know if any other CDs or significant others of CDs have any advice to give me. I really can see this being a long term relationship and I love that I've known him for so long before we started dating. He does know about my past abuse in my previous relationship and he's been very supportive with my healing process and he's always open minded.

Also, my first thought was that we need to have a sleepover where we can do girls things all night...he loved the idea! The only thing I hope is that I didn't offend him by using the word "girly".

Thanks for any advice and suggestions.

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Old May 06, 2013, 09:21 PM
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Do you think he would be cross dressing if he was easily offended? Take it light, as long as you are nice and understanding I don't think he will be offended by any innocent mistakes.
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Old May 06, 2013, 09:27 PM
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I have a friend who cross dresses and he loves calling himself girly. He wears skirts around me and such and I'm totally cool with it. As long as you don't act like anything has changed, you should be perfectly fine. He probably just wants to know that he can share something of this magnitude with you without it putting a barrier between the two of you.
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Old May 07, 2013, 08:09 PM
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Thanks guys! I do just want to know as much as I can, I'm really excited for where I think things can go.
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