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Old Aug 17, 2013, 01:15 PM
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I will speak with him as soon as he is not busy. Some rumors are false and most of those are sexual. There are also some that have some truth behind them but they are not of the sexual nature. The true or semi-true rumors have to do with my mental disorders.
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Old Aug 17, 2013, 01:18 PM
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I will speak with him as soon as he is not busy. Some rumors are false and most of those are sexual. There are also some that have some truth behind them but they are not of the sexual nature. The true or semi-true rumors have to do with my mental disorders.
It is really unfortunate to have a rumor attached to yourself. Its not fun, and difficult at that age when you still attend school. Just wait it out and talk to your boyfriend and see what he says too. If you care about this boy it would be wise to listen to his feelings on the matter and try not to seem overly eager to become friends with this potential friend it may come across as you wanted more than friendship making him insecure. Good luck with the conversation little woman.
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Old Aug 17, 2013, 01:20 PM
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Thank you. I want to talk to him before I go to work but I don't think that will happen so I'll have to talk to him tonight.
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Old Aug 17, 2013, 09:31 PM
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Easy to put this in perspective, really. If your bf had a female 'friend wannabe' who also admitted to having a crush on him, and he felt the exact same way YOU do about your 'friend wannabe'...how would that affect your relationship with your bf?
Excellent and important point. This is why I recommended asking the BF regarding his boundaries. Whether he is comfortable or not is up to him to decide, and I think that would be the best starting point in determining how to treat the friendship.



wpmelane: Everyone is allowed to have friends of any gender. It's not unusual.
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Old Aug 17, 2013, 10:34 PM
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I talked to my boyfriend and he said it's ok that I'm friends with the new guy. We didn't talk much more about it since it's late. I still haven't figured out how comfortable I am with it.
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Old Aug 18, 2013, 10:00 AM
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See if you can continue the discussion, such as explaining your fears and further concerns.
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Old Aug 18, 2013, 01:11 PM
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What would be a good way to continue it since it happened last night?
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