[Danny 123456]

Hey everyone just looking for some good advice and wanting to vent, my girlfriend is really having bad mood swings, she's becoming a nightmare at times but when she's herself and not in this deep thinking stage where everything is negative, she can be nasty when her mood swings and last week she was nothing short of evil in what she said to me but it's all over money... I miss the days where she was chilled out and not bothered about things in life. She gets very jealous of me because she has a child to look after and I can work full time... And she hates that I don't have housework to do... I don't live with her yet, but she hates that I can come home go to bed and she can't.. WHY would that make someone jealous??

We've spoke about having ago for a child soon but I'm thinking well is it going to work?? All these mood swings are hurting me and it's not right..

Anyone had this?

[IndieVisible]

You've just described the typical wife. Join the club

[H3rmit]

Originally Posted by IndieVisible

You've just described the typical wife.

Or the stereotypical husband. Most people are unreasonable, it seems.

[healingme4me]

^^ well, I for one, was never in typical category, apparently, not every woman has 'mood swings'.

So, she's unable, with one child, to find time for sleep??? (i have three,,no excuse for her lashing out,,period.)

Does she share custody, with an ex? At least, you haven't taken, that leap, yet.

Could say, get it together, or no go, as it sounds, no mas.

Maybe, she needs to see a doctor, see if, something physical, is causing her to be out of sort???

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[avlady]

Maybe she has that time of the month!!!!Not to be bold or anything but she could just have a bad time during it, i now i always did until i had an operation to stop them now i'm not as bad, but i was probably as bad as her concerning the anger and mood swings.

[Anika.]

What happened to the other child or are they at shool or something. You mentioned in a diffetent post that she gets suicidal and stuff like that. Maybe time for her to seek some help with whatever issues she is dealing with. And the abusive ex part you mentioned before. Maybe she needs to speak to someone who can help her deal with this stuff. What has she said about any of it?

[Lonely_90]

I deal with this, but from my bf, if they say go this way, not matter if you go that direction its still wrong. you need to get her into couseling, dont make yourself miserable like I make myself . its not fun

Good Luck

[Danny 123456]

Thank you for the replies, she has both kids and I've got to the bottom of everything all her problems I got to the bottom of it, it's all to do with money, basically she thinks that because her kids want an Xbox one and an iPad 4 or a 90 quid doll that is basically a human she thinks they should have it all and that they get whatever they want???? When I was 8 I got an action man and if I even dared say is that it?? I'd get a slipper across the backside... The issue is her wanting to work as well her family won't look after the kids her mum is been nasty about it, everything would be simple if she world and could earn the money

[ThirtyThree82]

Your girlfriend really needs to get her hormones checked. I have severe mood swings, and after years of suffering, I finally recognized it's a definite pattern. If she has ever taken birth control, that may have made her mood swings worse, which is what happened to me. I got the birth control shot, and it totally messed me up. I use to be pretty mellow. I get into those moods where I over analyze every detail, and go into this negative thoughts loop. It's real torture for a good part of the month. Just be sensitive about that, but also encourage her to get some tests.
Another thing, I have a boyfriend with kids, and I realized I cannot say anything about how he wants to spend his money on them. So, I had to learn to just leave it alone. If she wants to spoil her kids, then she has to pay for all of that expensive unnecessary stuff. All you can do is let the kids and her know where you stand with that, and give up trying to change her mind. The problem is that she can't work because she has kids, but wants another one???? For the love of God, don't have a child with her before you resolve this issue. It will not make anything better, only worse! And then guess what? You could break up, and be stuck paying child support. I don't understand why she can't work PT. She needs to get her hormones balanced, and then become a grown woman about her responsibilities as a parent. Her family doesn't HAVE to look after her kids either, it would be nice, but it's not their sole responsibility. Sorry, but some parents these days expect everyone else to look after their children, get mad when others don't want to, and then have another kid! Please be wise.