Reationship Issues Regarding Sex

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Rhapsody said:

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Sarah116 said:
He sounds like he is addicted.
Stay away from him, from what you said it sounds like you could very easily and badly get hurt!
Good luck!

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IMO (40 yrs exp) - I would not necessarily say that he is addicted just because he wants SEX every day, for this is very a normal behavior for most males - you will find that some males can even carry this desire long into their golden years.

What I would suggest is that you two talk about his desire verses your desire (or lack of it) and see if you two might come to a compromise...... and please know that most males do indeed want / crave SEX way more than most females do - but also know that later in life this great wonder will change and it will be the female wanting SEX more than the male.... how will you feel then?

BTW - Males often express their love for another through - a sexual relationship & through providing financially for the ones they love.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yes, but to get that upset and not look or talk to her, it sounds like a anger or/and a addiction issue.

Are you married? The bible says you should never refuse your husband except on a blue moon. I had a similar situation, only he also was a sex addict, becuz he had hookers, and call girls and several different girlfriends, oh boy what joy!!! Glad to be out. Look into sex addiction, however you have to realize that he will make you feel absolutely fabulous afterwards right???

Tough decision I know. You might want a profesional mediator. Best wishes., Leilee

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Sarah116 said:
Yes, but to get that upset and not look or talk to her, it sounds like a anger or/and a addiction issue.

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NAH........ this matter is not an addiction or anger issue, but rather an immature issue.... for this b/f (and her) still need time to grow as individuals - as well as a couple..... they will get there in time.

The being told "NO" syndrome then "ACTING" like a child is something that many of us will practice in some way or form until the day we die.... and I would say that being upset for just a little old hour is good, for he is not holding a grudge for days or even weeks over this matter.
Plus by being able to let the emotional hurt he felt go so soon (when he was told No- a rejection of him not just sex, from his pov) this action shows that he is learning & growing.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

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NAH........ this matter is not an addiction or anger issue, but rather an immature issue.... for this b/f (and her) still need time to grow as individuals - as well as a couple..... they will get there in time.

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I agree, Rhapsody