I Have issues, i think!

I have never been diagnosed with any sexual disorder officially but i think i may have one. I have been having sex since 12. Not just a lil here and there. I used to have lots of sex!! Almost on a daily basis throughout my teenage years and into my twenties.

Some times with two or three woman a day. I got married to a woman who also had a very active sex drive and we had all kinds of adventures together until we separated. Now I am with someone who i love with all my heart. She's everything i ever wanted but she doesn't have my sex drive.
Now i find myself going from a sex twice a day for ten years relationship to a once a week status and it's killing me. I love my girl and don't want to cheat but our sex drives are starting to really become a issue. I find myself thinking about sex all day now. What should I do?

Have you considered counseling for the 2 of you? Sexual issues are a common reason couples seek help.

it has been mentioned in our conversations. She was abused as a child. ( not penetrated but he touched her with his fingers and now she refuses to let my fingers anywhere near her private areas, completely understandable)

But I am always ready and shes like "didn't we do it two days ago??"

patience, understanding and maybe councelling for both of you? It is obviously still quite fresh in her mind as it is with survivors of abuse, I wish you well, jinnyann xoxoxoxoxox

thanx jinny