[goldmaiden]

I'm just going to do a little post where i pretend i am talking to all my friends and people i know and stuff and telling them things. But i'm not using their names...i will say whether they they are guys or girls.

Ok here goes.

To a guy:
What the ***** happened to you? I swear i ran into you but i hardly recognised you and you just never said anything to me. Hey i wish i had got your number cos we could have hung out but cos of your f*cking girlfriend i mean i don't mind her but you can't have a friend that's a girl? You're still my friend i am just like never going to see you again.

To a guy:
Hey i'm sorry, but i am a little hurt, you know why. I told you so. I really adore you i wish you would let me adore you! I know you're shy, but i can be shy too and if you just wrote back you will see me get scared and go quiet and everything like shy people do. And i love you, as friends do. I couldn't find a guy better than you, i couldn't. I don't know how we would get along in person but i wonder if it would be really good. Actually i just want to watch a movie with you i reckon that would be awesome!

To a girl:
***** you, seriously i hate you. I may be related to you but i'll be f*cked if i care. I have nothing more to say to you, but you open your mouth and give me cr*p and i'll give you worse back. (Apologies for the swearing)

To a guy: (Yes there are lots of guys)
I freakin love you. I do and you know it. But that might not be enough. You know what i asked you and i was SERIOUS at the time, i was. I'm still pretty serious about it, yet again, that might not be enough. It is ALL up to you, ALL. It's in your hands. But i won't stop loving you.

To a guy:
Ok fair enough if you are going out with her, but i can't see what she has. She's obsessed with religion and she's cute but that is so not right for you, you have hardly a religious bone in your body and i say that in a friendly way! Hey if you want to be left alone that's cool but either i have trouble understanding you or you can't put it quite right even if you try. Hey it's in your hands too, i can move on, like that! And then you will lose me, and i am already so far from you!

To a guy:
I can't even tell if that's you. But hey i had fun flirting with you today. Hey, you know it will go no-where but that's never the point. No offence anyway. You're pretty cool, at least that's what i think at the moment :-P

To a guy:
Hey you make me so sad, seeing you sad, it breaks my heart. I just want to see you laugh like you used to and joke and giggle with me, that warmed my heart! Things will be ok, i promise, and i am here for you, even when i look like i have too much s**t to deal with, i don't, I don't care at all, i love you heaps and i don't want you to leave my side, just be happy for me. You mean everything to me.

Yeah so most of those were guys...oh i could even fit this guy in:

To a guy:
Hey you! Do you know how moody you are! It's pretty funny for a guy, no offence. I just wanted to see you, hey i already like you you're not going to give me any surprises too big. Lol. Just open up to me, i'm pretty easy going, and if it all ends in a fight, who cares, at least we gave it a go. We could have heaps of fun.

Oh and this guy.

Well, am i pissed off with you. Because you decided to say nothing after that mesage and well at least i told you that was so immature and now you've gone and hidden and well that is even more immature. What is your problem are you like retarded or something? When i see you i am going to tell you what i think and you are going squeal like a mouse cos that's pretty much what you are. Hey i'm surprised you sink so low, but it doesn't mean i hate you it's just that i can see less is going to work for you and you need some help, from me, or someone else! Seriously, you're struggling!

Hey i was about to finish but there is this girl as well.

OMG. Hey i have nothing to say to you, nothing nice, but you are a complete b**ch. And you most likely know it, then it was hilarious i loved to hear that you got told off. Ha ha what a Dude. I told him what you did and he must trust me cos then he put you in your place. Hilarious. I did the right thing, when i did what i did, and all you have ever done is reminded me why i did that. You're a loser...Ha ha ha.

Yeah so that's what i have to say to people...MAN that was fun!

xx

[nothemama8]

could you write a post of positive things to tell these ppl

[goldmaiden]

Some of it is positive- did you read it properly?

[goldmaiden]

To a guy:

OMG you don't even deserve me. I'm not going to do anything now like block you, i wish i could! I still like you but now i have my reservations...you do some stupid stuff and what for?? Because i am nice to you?...how f-ed up!

You're *insert age here* but you need to grow up a bit, you remind me of this other guy i know and well he is younger but you don't act your age in some ways.

I am like WAY pissed off with you...i need to vent. Yes, like i said GROW UP. You don't act like a man you act like a wuss.

And you don't deserve me, you don't.

xx

[goldmaiden]

Some more:

Guy: Ok so you didn't want to go out with me, i already knew that. But it's cool it wasn't something i really really wanted. Just wondered about. Still want to see you though.

Girl: Just annoyed with you at the moment. You let me down HEAPS. Whatever happens next happens but you probably won't hear from me in a while. I don't really care. I'm not going to waste my time with you.

Guy: Come on even *girls name* thinks you should add me again. But hey, i'm not all into you anymore, so it's not a priority.

Guy: Where are you, i love you heaps!

Guy: OMG %#@&#! off i hate you

That's it!

[SeptemberMorn]

And what was the point to all of that?? Were you just letting off steam... or what?

[nothemama8]

if you spoke to me in this way I would truely wonder if you want ppl to befriend you or stay away from you, maybe I'm too old, my generation never spoke like this

[razeljenny]

Goldmadien, I can't understand this, but it sounds like you are letting off steam.

You can relax and be more specific someday. I know it. Remember each of us has different views and are entitled to share them on this board. We are soppossed to help one another and have respect for them. You may disagree with anothers lifestyle but you can extropolate more nicely when you disagree with people.

You can if you do alittle at a time and don't get real upset. When you are that way no one will understand your point of view and hence they will just say you are uncultured. Learning to discuss your differences of view is something you can practice here Goldmadien. You may even use it someday in face to face confruntations which you may not be able to avoid. Learn to let alittle out at a time instead of going into a tirade. I visulize you doing that in person with others too,. Tirades dont "look good on you honey!" Believe me I have been taught this same golden rule (being nice will bring you nice, and being loud and disruptive will later come back to you.) by others and made the same error in my ways, It is not too late for you to work on Goldmadien. We can use a hearty talk can't we? After all why not try, because what have you really got to lose? Are you just being angry and enjoying shaking your fists and not identifying real problems and issues, you are worth taking the time and effort to look at yourself more closely. I hope you will not take my advice as a put down honey.

[goldmaiden]

Oh it really helps- when you can't actually say things to people's faces. Of course i don't talk like this to their faces!

[razeljenny]

Thats pretty good and I admit, you could do that and have alittle pleasure because it is ok here. It is kinda a Bohemean Rapsadity and I like that sometimes Kid