[niceguy]

Forget it over it!!!

Well me n my bf had two week break n decided to meet as friends lol it obviously turned out that we decided to start over and this took time to rebuild but it has made us stronger In the long run. Maybe she has seen error of her ways or whatever's gone on and hopefully it will work out in the way u want it to. Zx

[niceguy]

forget it over it

My heart goes out to ya. I hope it does work out. If it was all raging fights like ours, we set boundaries and stuff as to make sure it don't happen again. Now he tells me I'm 'the one' which he said he never seen a future for us before. I hope u work your differences out and come out stronger ! Am all for if it's meant to be it's meant to be ! Xxx

If she's just messing you around and emotionally abusing you tho then u deserve much better as she is disrespecting you knowing u will come back. Xx

[niceguy]

forget it over it

Well maybe note her body language and also if u need advice on women am always on hand to give u help decode a woman ! After all I am a moody one lol xx

[Frankbtl]

Hi niceguy, really easy to get "sucked back in", remembering the better parts, wanting to believe things can be different. But sometimes things are as they are.......as you know......Admiring your strength (!!), must be really hard on/for you, just drop by for support anytime if you need it.
Alison

[niceguy]

I was feeling a range of emotions yesterday. Yet another game was played at my expense. Worse still, it came out of nowhere. One of their many perfect traits. I was sad, dissapointed, angry, empty etc.... Today, is different. Today, while inner fury plagued me from the moment i woke up. It finally hit me, that they did do me a favour, they just do not know it. I kept feeling guilt and sadness, that they needed me and i had betrayed them. However, when the realization hit, that they were the one to behave poorly- it gave me the greatest gift. A guilt free exit...

I wish they could see, what a blessing it is to have such a toxic, selfish and arrgoant loser, out of my life, once and for all.

So hugs xx

p.s for all your support guys, much love xx

[lightinthesky]

I thought it is over for you. Isn't it?

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[niceguy]

I thought i was, then i gave in, one more chance, yet again. They were the one to mess me around again. So, in short, they won the battle- but lost the war. (I would have given them what they were waiting for- but they chose to be childish.) I always forgive and give in to them. That was yet another mistake i made. I always believed, deep down in their heart, there was goodness. They have single handedly made me realize, that in some people there is no goodness. Just enjoyment from making others hurt. They are bored with their own life, so they mess with other people. It's like, let's wait until they are happy and then pounce.

I used to wish them all the happiness in the world. Now i realize they don't want that at all, they prefer to make everyone (including themselves) miserable. Thus, why they are always alone.
I would never wish bad things on anyone, and i know they have had a rough life, that is why they are the way they are; but at some point, you have to stop making excuses for their bad behaviour and let it go.
I am hurt. Won't lie, but the reality is- i will move on, and they will still be as miserable as ever, which while it does sadden me, it is what it is.

[Frankbtl]

Hi niceguy, it just shows how much you have already moved on, despite any left over feelings. I'm sure it would have been a different story one/two/three (?)............ months ago so real respect!!
I'll always say there's goodness in people, sorry, but sometimes things just aren't going to even touch on being in your best interests and you do really need to protect yourself at the end of the day. And there is SO much more out there, including people you aren't going to need to protect yourself from!!
And as ever, think you've got great insight so just go with it!!!
Alison

[niceguy]

I know your right. I am just a bit bitter, i guess. I am the eternal optomist, so i know that there is still good in everyone. I am however, having a hard time excusing their behaviour this time; which leads me to believe any good that is left in them will never be directed towards me. Or maybe i am wrong, perhaps this was the way they let me go, so that i could be happy, without them? Knowing, they would only continually let me down and break my heart time and time again? Who knows?

I hate that I was affected again. I should have known better. I knew this would be the final conclusive onslaught, i was just hoping that i would be wrong, this time and I wasn't.

[Frankbtl]

Hi, I'd say you've got a right to be a bit bitter, it can just be human nature in a situation like that.
But the thing is you've really got what it takes to move on from that/and you will so just allow yourself to feel how you feel right now, you've been through a lot and I know you have it in you to come out stronger (and not bitter!) as you gradually put it behind you.
And don't blame yourself for having been affected, you've had a lot of history with them, a lot of "water under the bridge", what matters is that you're on the right tracks now. Might still be some residual feelings coming up from time to time, but you are now seeing "the bigger picture" and that's got to help.
Best wishes
Alison