He's 39 and I'm 24 and my gut tells me he has other intentions for me.

I've been stuck in a rut where I was forced out of my home and had to depend on others to help me get through is long physical and emotional part of my life. In the mist of all this I'm dealing with health complications and stress is something I dont need to be added to it.

Well my concerns are the intentions of a particular person that have been coming around and helping me with transportion and money to get through the weeks. I can't help it but to take in this man's offer when he ask if I need a ride anyway or money for food. The rest of my other friends and family just haven't been available to me the way I need them to me but this man have been supporting me all the way.

I just can't help but to question why he's been so willing to help me when my own bestfriends and family availibility have been so limited.

He's a 39 year old man who just doesnt have much of his own friends, lives with his mom and loves talking about his cats. I use public transportation that are provided by my city who have a disability and thats how I met him. He's a regular driver of mine. He's the type who doesnt care how he looks and could go without a shower for a couple of days.

I just have a feeling that he has more intentions toward me then just being friends and helping me when I'm just going through so much right now. I keep reminding him of our age differences that I'm 24 and he's 39 and how we're just friends. He's always calling me just wish me a good day and asking me to go to dinner with him. I feel I cant refuse him because he's already done so much for me that I feel I have to go along with him to show how grateful I am with his help. Sadly to say right now I do need all the help I could get from anyone and well he's the one who's available.

Women's intuition is a powerful thing and I see you as more intuitive than most, Jennifer. I say to listen to your gut and don't second-guess yourself.

I'd take your intuitive feelings and ramp up your search for other social services that can help you.

Stay safe, my dear

What LMo said. Exactly the same. Trust your gut.

From me too. Trust yourself. Sounds like you're right on the money. Take care,
Okie

I was in a 3 year relationship with someone who was 27, I am 50. It was great sex, and he was my best friend, but when it was over, it was over in a second and he refuses to talk to me. He is embarrased that he dated older women.