[my_life_sucks]

Yesterday I went to see my babies father and everything blew up in my face I haven't seen him in three months or so and I feel like it didn't even phase him he had his new girl in the house which is one of my ex friends and it hurt me even more I fussed I cursed and I was honestly ready to fight at the end we came to an agreement and my heart still feels heavy and wounded I don't understand why still feel this way I'm even involved with someone so please help

[waiting4]

Hi my_life......I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I know it's a struggle, but try not to be so hard on yourself. 3 months seems like a long time but it's really not. Give yourself longer to feel 'right' again. I have to do the same thing....and I know it's difficult.

[buzz bee]

I can see how that could hurt. Even if you are no longer a couple you still have him in your heart. That is why the pain is there. And you have a dumplin to worry about. Have you already had the baby?

[Disorder7]

Like you mentioned, one reason it hurts so bad is because he's with one of your ex-friends. That feels like a slap in the face. It would be better if he was with a stranger you'd never met.

Since you have a child with him, you will pretty much be in his life forever. I hope you are able to one day come to terms with the pain and find peace.

[asheepywolf]

I'm so sorry for your pain, I know it hurts, and like others said 3 months seems like a long time but it's not when you're unhappy. I have a 3 year old little girl and am currently going through marital problems myself. But that child, she is my true strength and I know you feel the same. I'm not very good as far as relational advice goes but I can say try to keep your mind busy and avoid things that will bring up bad memories. There is someone out there who will love you so much they will dream about you even when they're sleeping right next to you. I promise it will get better and one day this will just be a faced memory in your minds diary. Good luck and I'm here to talk if you ever need to vent or chat or just babble. :-)

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