Single for 20 years

roseblossom · Jul 13, 2014 at 05:15 AM

I'm just tired at the moment.

glok · Jul 13, 2014 at 06:04 AM

Hello, roseblossom. Hope you can get some rest.

Maria38Divine · Jul 13, 2014 at 07:25 AM

Hey Rose,

Take a break. Get some rest. Listen to some soothing music.

Wishing the best for you

ididwhat? · Jul 13, 2014 at 12:12 PM

Wow. And, I thought I was the only one who's been single for 20 years.
Roseblossom... here's wishing you new found energy after a much needed rest. It's Sunday... a good day to do just that.

seeker1950 · Jul 14, 2014 at 05:54 AM

I finally grew to prefer being single. I felt, after my divorce, that NOW was the time to meet "Mr. Right," wrong!

I'm not saying you won't find a wonderful relationship; you probably will! But for me, the chaos of dating, the emo rollercoaster of doubt, questioning my own judgment after many failed attempts at bonding, the recovery time (omg!), I finally decided to try a different tack (as in changing course). That is, finding contentment/fulfillment alone. I did this by going back to school for my Master's degree.
Do you have the option of pursuing a course of study that is of great interest to you? That is very rewarding, and also builds self-esteem. And, who knows?, you might meet someone who appreciates you while you are pursuing your own goals!

roseblossom · Jul 14, 2014 at 06:35 AM

Thanks for all your kind replies.

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Originally Posted by seeker1950

I finally grew to prefer being single. I felt, after my divorce, that NOW was the time to meet "Mr. Right," wrong!

I'm not saying you won't find a wonderful relationship; you probably will! But for me, the chaos of dating, the emo rollercoaster of doubt, questioning my own judgment after many failed attempts at bonding, the recovery time (omg!), I finally decided to try a different tack (as in changing course). That is, finding contentment/fulfillment alone. I did this by going back to school for my Master's degree.
Do you have the option of pursuing a course of study that is of great interest to you? That is very rewarding, and also builds self-esteem. And, who knows?, you might meet someone who appreciates you while you are pursuing your own goals!

Thanks seeker - I would really love to study, but if I study at degree level it means moving area - significantly. I have thought about it more than once - but haven't acted because my situation has been complicated by having a mental illness, and not being a property owner I am dependent on social housing.

However, really deep down studying I think would be really good to do.

seeker1950 · Jul 14, 2014 at 06:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by roseblossom

Thanks for all your kind replies.

Thanks seeker - I would really love to study, but if I study at degree level it means moving area - significantly. I have thought about it more than once - but haven't acted because my situation has been complicated by having a mental illness, and not being a property owner I am dependent on social housing.

However, really deep down studying I think would be really good to do.

I'm sorry you are in a situation which prevents your from pursuing a degree.
But..there ARE online degrees, which are available to anyone. I've taken some online courses. They were great!

roseblossom · Jul 14, 2014 at 07:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seeker1950

I'm sorry you are in a situation which prevents your from pursuing a degree.
But..there ARE online degrees, which are available to anyone. I've taken some online courses. They were great!

Hi seeker, thanks for suggesting this. I'm heartened by how positive you are. I will have a look. Take care,

Roseblossom

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ididwhat? Member Member Since Jun 2012 Location: West Coast Posts: 69 11 5 hugs given	Jul 13, 2014 at 12:12 PM #4 Wow. And, I thought I was the only one who's been single for 20 years. Roseblossom... here's wishing you new found energy after a much needed rest. It's Sunday... a good day to do just that.
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