[Flinty]

Hi All,

I am feeling very blue at the moment......
I'll give you a little bit of history about myself...
I am 26 years old & have been overweight most of my life!!!
I suffer from depression, which is very up & down, sometimes I feel I am on top of it, then other days (like today) I struggle to breathe!!!
I no longer take any meds for my depression.

I am current trying my *** off to change my life style, I am unhappy about my weight & trying to do something about it!!

Due to both my weight & depression, I have issues in regards to sex!
My partner, it seems will never be able to understand this!
I am always being pressured for sex, or made to feel guilty about not feeling "in the mood"
I try to explain to my partner what it feels like for me, & he says he understands, but he doesn't!!!

He makes me feel angry & I try to talk to him about how I am feeling, yet he turns it around & says it's just the way I interpret things!!!

Flinty

Flinty, Flinty, Flinty!

we have spoke about this before. your bf wont understand what its like to be depressed if he hasnt been there himself. we can spend so much effort and time trying to make them understand, but it wont work...

i know you feel pressured, but you kno the real reason why you dont feel "in the mood" for sex, so he can react however he likes. you need to focus on getting out of this low, and not to worry about how your bf will react. he loves you, i know he does, and he just feels rejected, thats all...no matter how mard you try to make him see it differently he wont, so just forget it.

you are a gorgeous person sarah, inside and out. take all the time you need to feel comfortable with yourself. i just want you to know that you are great and the work you have done recently shows just hw strong you are...you'll achieve this soon, but it will slow you down if you let your bf get to you.

let me know if you need me ok.

simon

[Wants2Fly]

I am so sorry you are feeling down.

[chiz]

I understand what you're going through. But your husband must be the one who helps you feel good.

well, please never lose hopes on your relationships and get yourself motivated. Set a goal of reducing your weight and stay motivated on reaching this goal.

Please, try not to get yourself depressed. Always think that you have us here. Instead of getting depressed, do something to solve your problems. Stay strong as well.

God bless you. .

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