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Dec 26, 2016, 01:12 PM
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A 2 month relationship sounds kind of new to be getting this heavy into issues, but it's a good thing that they are coming up. You being extremely anxious about her seeing her dogs is something you need to work on.
That being said, she has some major issues to work on. Being in a relationship where one of the partners becomes basically asexual can be beyond devastating to the other partner. She would feel rejected, unloved, not sexually attractive and many other things. She could subconsciously still be seeking validation from him. I admire you that you want to work on this. However there is the option to back away for a bit and work on these issues independently and come back together when you both have made progress. I was once in a relationship with a guy when it became obvious to me that they had not completely separated. She even still had stuff at his house. I told him that I did not want to be in the middle of that and backed away. 6 months later they were firmly and finally separated and we got back together. We went on to get married.
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