[Generic_username123]

And there is a chance he still may as well.

We were just talking about a couple of arguements we have had this month where I've over reacted to criticism of burning food in the oven and getting annoyed when he served me spaghetti and meatballs with tomato ketchup instead of bolognaise sauce, so I apologised. We talked it over and he's agreed to go on a break for a month to think things over.

We've gone on breaks before as he wanted space but it just seems more serious this time. He was thinking about it before Christmas but didn't want to upset me before then, it's upset me that we spent Christmas together with all of this in his head but I can see where he's coming from in that he didn't want to ruin my Christmas.

It can't be easy living with me and all my mental issues but he says he still loves me which would make breaking up harder in a way. He also says he likes being alone and if he had a full time job wouldn't have time for a relationship. Lots of people have full time jobs and are in a relationship, if you love someone you make time for them. He doesn't want kids as well so I have to make a decision about whether I want them or not. I used to want them but lately gone off the idea. It's probably something I would sacrifice for love.

I'm just so confused :-(

[998467]

Dear. Just ensure again why don't he want kids, and in a relationship fighting and back to normal its happening all over the world. And I don't think but still a full time job won't spoil a relationship, you talk to him about this. And if you really want him back, take a day think about the moments you both spend it happily and try to fix it. If he don't like kids you have to ensure him about his fertile.

Maybe you just need to have a break from him and find out what you do want .

[Generic_username123]

Well it's been a week and things are a little easier. I sent him a text on years eve and got one back saying happy new year. I haven't contacted him other than that, he did say he's there for me if I need him but I don't know if he felt obliged to say that because he volunteers for the samaritans and I'm not about to say how I really feel and that I haven't been eating and lost 6 lbs in one week.

I've been thinking a lot to myself about whether he really loved me and I think he did in his own way, I don't know if he's being honest to himself about whether he does now. I mean I get why he was annoyed about the arguments, I got moody and then didn't give him a break when it was his turn to be in a mood. I just need to give him time to work out what he want's to do next I guess.