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Feb 03, 2015, 11:58 PM
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How it's going is fairly normal for a breakup. I'm devestated, lost, confused, wondering if I did the right thing - when I saw all the signs of unhealthy relationship. I think I'm feeling so sad and horrible because in the beginning he was 95% perfect. He was a perfect list of what I wanted. I'm so sad it turned toxic. I'm worried how I can improve my mistakes ? I'm wondering if I'll ever hug him again? He's not talking to me and telling my friends and family things - glorifying himself. When we were clearly both at fault- many times. I just want to hug him. Get some closer. He won't talk to me and I am no longer trying to contact him. My heart aches .
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 Anonymous37954, leggiera, shezbut
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Feb 04, 2015, 12:31 AM
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95% Perfect isn't what you want, you want your sole-mate to be 100% (in your eyes/thoughts.) In order to improve your mistakes, well, that's just a lesson in life you will have to learn on your own. Yeah, breaking up sucks, however, remember, there is always someone out in this world that is meant for you. It may take time, but that is how life works out. When your down, you never know, you may just meet the right guy when you least expect it. Take care.
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Feb 04, 2015, 07:27 PM
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Maybe it isn't such a bad thing that your relationship ended. You said yourself that it was toxic and also that he is not telling the truth about what went on when he talks to your family and friends. It can be very painful when a relationship ends and it takes a good while to be able to move on. However, I am proud of you for not contacting him and I think you will be able to move forward and find the "right" guy in a little while.
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Feb 04, 2015, 07:47 PM
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Look at your post and reread what you wrote.
"...when I saw all the signs of unhealthy relationship." "...in the beginning he was 95% perfect." "...it turned toxic." You did the right thing, but that doesn't mean you made an easy decision. Life is going to hurt and suck for a while, but one day you will wake up and the sun will be shining. |
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Feb 06, 2015, 08:39 AM
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Take it from me when you feel deep down inside that things aren't right then they probably aren't. I'm in a similar situation with my partner where we both are kinda going in opposite directions so I know the pain you are feeling. If you wanna talk about it I'm here
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