griefing

im single, but still grieving my ex in certain ways...
how do you move on?
how do you meet someone new?

im ready for it, i just dont have many social opportunities

I am not good at telling one how to move on, because I myself feel very confused about my xhusband and certain feelings that are not healed.

But I do think healing first comes with acceptance that the relationship is over. Grief can be complicated. If you know in your heart that you wont miss your x if you found someone knew you would may be ready. If you miss your x or grief your x in romantic ways I would believe you need healing first.

Maybe talking things out with your x would help, if he is willing to talk?

Meeting someone new is sometimes difficult when not having many social opportunities, I can relate to that.

I believe that when or if you meet someone it will all come naturally and that if you are really ready to meet someone you will know it in your heart.

well, i do feel ready...
its been a rough few years but im trying to put the pieces back together

she doesnt keep in touch with me any more... although she promised
i just dont think there is any way she and i can be together now

i dont talk about these things much and dont really know what to say

i do miss talking to her dearly

I am sorry you two are not in touch anymore. I hope you will find way to move on. I can understand how you miss talking to her.

If you are ready to find new love, that is great. It means at least you are not grieving her romantically or have heartache over her in that way. Maybe a new love will make you able to overcome some of the sadness you feel. I hope and wish for you the best.

it sucks to imagine a future with a person for it to fall apart seemingly all in 1 day

im male btw, so i guess im proof that girls can be super dirty sometimes

i hope you can get over your grieving, ive been there myself and am still grieving even years later and a marriage of 20 years now.