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Old May 31, 2015, 12:42 PM
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Old May 31, 2015, 12:52 PM
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Why is your love life, any of his business? Is there alimony or health insurance that could be affected if you remarry?
I have issues with feelings of guilt which are inappropriate guilt. I need to work on this. I feel fear if breaking the contact with him. But I dont know why.

Nothing would be affected if we remarried. Something we will not as I cant do that. The only issue is my own FOO issues.
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Old May 31, 2015, 01:01 PM
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I have issues with feelings of guilt which are inappropriate guilt. I need to work on this. I feel fear if breaking the contact with him. But I dont know why.

Nothing would be affected if we remarried. Something we will not as I cant do that. The only issue is my own FOO issues.
That's a huge Freudian slip.

To have alimony or other written items in a decree affected, legally affected if you remarry...another..

Are you active in therapy and support groups at the moment?
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Old May 31, 2015, 01:10 PM
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Freudian slip, what does that mean?

I mean, we never wrote any papers about anything to share. I think this is what you mean and asked?

I asked my doctor to give me a therapist for my issues, but I got letter telling me they saw no need for help. This was the specialists health service. I think I should try again and get a therapist through another place. I know I got one psychologist before, so that may be a start.

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Old May 31, 2015, 01:15 PM
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Why is your love life, any of his business? Is there alimony or health insurance that could be affected if you remarry?

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Nothing would be affected if we remarried. Something we will not.


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That's a huge Freudian slip.


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Freudian slip, what does that mean?
Freudian slips, are slips of the tongue displaying inner desire. To describe its meaning, briefly.
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Old May 31, 2015, 01:20 PM
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Freudian slips, are slips of the tongue displaying inner desire. To describe its meaning, briefly.
Ok, I think I understand. I also googled it.
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