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Jun 09, 2015, 02:23 PM
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Okay so this is pretty much it. I go to the coffee shop three times a day because it gets me away from talking to the walls. I imagine the people there are my friends but they're required to be there because it's their job. However, without this outlet I would be alone all the time. The problem is I've never been a "joiner" I'm a solo act. I'm also a bit lazy and don't mind a few hours in my lazy boy chair. In the past I've tried random dating but found this exhausting and I found myself being a bit clingy when I found someone interesting. I know I'm sort of self defeating but this is the way it is. I guess I'm writing this to seek approval of this redundant lifestyle. It's lonely but I'm pretty comfortable on the fringe. Thanks and have a good day.
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Jun 09, 2015, 04:28 PM
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Do you always go to the same one or do you mix it up?
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Jun 09, 2015, 06:46 PM
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A couple it seems like you're out there but then you go home. Yikes!
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Jun 09, 2015, 07:58 PM
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Jun 09, 2015, 08:46 PM
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I think its healthy that you are leaving your home daily.
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Jun 09, 2015, 09:31 PM
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It's always a good idea. For the past few months if not work or gym all I do is go to bed and some of the time depressed and lonely. Before I hit my depression again I use to do meetup some were missed one group was a hit and I enjoyed the interaction and company.
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#7
Jun 09, 2015, 10:53 PM
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I think though that you can do better.
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You can do better. I ask you this: how many men your age do you see befriended by a young woman not related to them? You have more to offer than you seem to realize or are willing to admit. Use those gifts! |
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