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Old Aug 06, 2015, 09:48 AM
PsychAL PsychAL is offline
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I have a Facebook friend who is now a college freshman. I've known the person for three years, bit I haven't seen her in a long time until recently. I managed to interact with her, but after two messages on Messenger, she has gone completely silent. Or it's more like she set the notifications off as far as my messages are concerned. I sent an additional three or four messages; they were delivered but not yet read. I can understand why she hasn't read the messages though, as she doesn't want my messages to be mixed in with that of her classmates and college friends. If our relations had already been strained, she could have just unfriended or blocked me, but she didn't. All she did was turn the notifications off. More or less, she intends to keep it that way until the semester's over. I don't want to be too judgmental on her, and I'm hoping that she turn back the notifications on once the semester's over. From the back of my mind, I get the feeling that she “dumped” me, but I prefer to be positive with it and hope that she will turn back the notifications on once sembreak starts.

What's your take on this?
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 10:47 AM
mkzaxxx411 mkzaxxx411 is offline
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bro you had to wait for her hope she will reply to you and turn notifications back on for you
according to my opinion you had to become positive with her as in result you will get positive feedback from her but be aware of today's mentality and be cautious...........

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Old Aug 06, 2015, 11:44 AM
thecrazylife thecrazylife is offline
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It looks to me like this friend doesn't dislike anything about you, she just thinks that she is better than you. You shouldn't care if she doesn't respond, you can find better friends.
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 06:01 PM
PsychAL PsychAL is offline
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This is related, and I found this particular post from another thread:

Quote:
Originally Posted by PowerOfNoSelf View Post
Giving without expecting anything in return is love.
Love gives you happiness.
This makes sense, as I still get the chance to write on her timeline though, as well as like some of her photos. To me, it no longer matters whether she replies or likes my posts. Unfriending her is only a sure way to ruin our friendship, as it is like a carrot and stick dangling right above my head as bait. I don't expect her to give anything back in return, though the gratification is more if she does.

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