i miss my sweetheart

if anyone actually watches the vid its just a song i listen to when im missing my man...

counting down the days till i see him again

awwwwww bronee..........

can i send you a big hug too cuz i wuv ya lots and lots and lots .....bet he's missing you more

love e.mom xoxoxoxoxo

[sabby]

(((((((((((bronee)))))))))))))))

I know exactly how you feel. It's been a year and a half since I've seen my man, my prince, the love of my life, my soulmate, my bestest friend in the whole wide world

Hope you are back together soon my friend!

Hugssss
J

[adele96]

why a year and a half?

[sabby]

Well, I live in the states and my husband is Romanian and hasn't been able to secure his visa yet to come here. We're still working on it. We have a few things going against us at the moment, but I'm sure we will overcome them.

I plan on visiting him late in the summer. Hopefully he will have another interview at the embassy at that time and I can attend the interview with him. That should help get him the visa when they can see us together as a loving couple.

Hugssss
J

[adele96]

oh god, that is tough. you guys must be very strong. wow, i really respect your loyalty and strength. best of luck with the interview.

[sabby]

Thanks so much adele

We're either strong or stupid, we haven't figured it out yet...LOLOLOL.

Hugssssssss
J

(((((((((SAB AND BRONEE)))))))))))))))
I hope this works out for the both of you!
I hope you both get your guys home or you go there!

[ukflower]

wow you guys must have such a strong bond, that is so awesome! i just found out that my boyfriend, who i love dearly, is being transferred to NY (we live in LA now) and i am getting my phd so i wont be able to move for atleast 3 yrs and he is finishing his so he is stuck there for atleast 3. i ahve been devastated but am tryin to be brave, any suggestions for making it work? he has been a rock but i still get all panicky thinking about "it"

[sabby]

((((((((((((((ukflower)))))))))))))))

So sorry to hear of your 3 year separation coming up. That really stinks

Hmmm....suggestions for making it....it's hard I won't lie to you. The most important thing I can think of is to keep the lines of communication open. You will both have bad days and nights and you need to be able to talk through them. Be strong for each other when you can't be strong for yourself. It helps.

Get the cheapest phone plan you can find, text often (but not so much that it ends up being a distraction from your studies). Email often too....I so look forward to my little yahoo messages and emails from my husband. They really make my day.

Take the time apart to improve yourselves. Work on whatever you think needs working on. Time passes slowly in the beginning, but it will speed up a bit after the first year. Keep busy...the worst thing you can do is sit at home and feel sorry for yourselves. Make dates...times when you can enjoy a meal together over the phone or internet, or a drink to celebrate a special occassion together.

Make plans together...things you will do when you get to visit each other, or long range plans after the 3 years is over with. Give yourselves something to look forward to.

Thats about it I can think of for the time being. Oh wait...snail mail....it's the best! Unexpected cards are a wonderful surprise

Hope the ideas help you both. I wish you both well and that time flies like mad for you!

Hugssssss
j