Do i stay quiet?

Maybe I don't understand everything that's going on, but can you not just call your friend to talk?

No he told me personal things because he can't tell anyone else , has nothing to do with relationships , we were friends for a very long time before anything else went on , and are still friends and always will be. HE is still in my circle , hes best friends with my brother , cousins , everyone so he will be around! Its not about moving on or not , I am trying to fix this friendship but because of what he deaks with , he needs space sometimes , I'm sure even from the gf he needs space , , getting into his personal issues here cause he would be upset with me if I told anyone, I'm not asking for advice on what to do as per my relationship with him , hes always gonna be in my life in some way or form , its a real family , I'm just asking how to handle the bus situation. ❤

Rcat and rose thank you but he does matter to me and always will , I promised him I would always be there for him and he promised me , I can't explain the bond , but its there even with the gf , I know when I 80 we will be sitting in our rocking chairs laughing and talking about the old days.

Well its simple.


What you do is, you take the bus just like you do everyday.


So what if you see her?


It hurts, you feel uncomfortable, and then you get to your destination.


Yes you may not want to start your day off on a sour note, but life isn't fair. Not to anyone.


You can always implement a plan to self-sooth, afterward. Take a brisk walk before work, have your favorite beverage or read something. Idk, anything that will help get you into a different headspace so your work day can begin on a lighter note.



Sharing a bus with her is not the end of the world, it wont cause you to spontaneously combust, so you certainly don't have to start walking to work to avoid her, because that's honestly just being ridiculous.


Some things in life are unfortunately hard, uncomfortable and down right painful, but we won't get anywhere trying to hide from all those experiences, because we end up stunting our growth and maturity as human beings.


Put on your big girl panties and show her what you're made of, claim back your bus.

There is really nothing to do with the whole bus thing. Just keep taking it and ignore his gf

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